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bonding with baby

Hi mom's just wondering if u talk to ur baby's and stuff like that? I'm 5 months and don't really do anything different to be honest.. is that bad??
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I never talked to my belly with my first 2 ! But I ask this baby to please stop rolling on my bladder. Lol
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I do it It The Best Fleeing ever ♡
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:) im trying but just don't feel to bond... feel silly to talk to my belly tho :(
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I found out I was pregnant at around 6 weeks pregnant and have talked to him and rub my belly sing to him and read to him complain and laugh at him .... it really makes the bond stronger hun .... I know its easy to get caught uo n not find the time or forgetting your pregnant we all have our flaws but trust me I have told u earlier in my comments it will make ur bond stronger with your baby hell ill be in a public place n get mad at something someone does and ill start rubbing my belly and talk to him about the ignorant people in this world
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I don't really feel a connection... :( i have so much stress on my that sometimes I'm forgetting preg. And then just feel silly and don't know how to talk to my baby... had a dream last night that I'm mm gain a boy tho. Was a bit disappointed in it.... :(
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Its okay if you dont. Youll still have a bond. Me and my hubby talk to our boy, he probably does more yhan I do. Its helps to picture what he or she might look like, that helped me to start talking. I also would play some of my fav songs and lay my phone on my belly so he could hear. Try talking by telling him/her good morning or pat your belly when you feel movement. If not, its okay too. Not everyone talks to their bub in the womb.
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I talked to my daughter when i first got pregnant. I have a certain voice i do for her because im so in love with her n she's not even here yet.  I call her beautiful and everything. Do u rub ur stomach ? Do u feel a connection?
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I just feel bad that I'm not banding with my baby.. :(
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When my grandma was close to dying she asked if I knew my baby was talking to me :) I did not know that, but ever since I tried to listen and just feel what baby was saying. I mostly talk to my baby in my head.
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I have a 2 & 3 year old they lift up my tummy and say pumpkin and they try to give my tummy the bottle and toys its cute cant wait till hes out so they can finally meet their pumpkin
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I feel silly do in it. Don't know why but just can't ;-( is that bad??
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With my first I would talk to him all the time. With my second from time conceived to birth he listened to me sing to big brother. Baby number 3 not at all. She will get benefit from books and such with the big brothers but nothing specific for her.
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I started at 16 weeks.  I sing to her, read her books, Vent, complain about her daddy to her lol, or ill tell her about how I can't wait to see her and that I love her so much.  I have so much time on my hands that I just talk away lol
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When did u start talking to ur belly then. I'm 5 months and feel silly to do it.
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I talk to my belly and sing to him and always tell him hes beating mommy up but then he just beats me up some more hes a funny little guy im a ftm and its exciting you should start you will see it will have an effect after hes born he will recognize your voice
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I used to read books to my boy in my belly. Plan on doing so with this one as well. It's a nice evening ritual. I read to my son as it is every night, so baby will be listening in.
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i tell him to stop moving he is killing mommy all the while his father is telling him to kick mommies behind, i have a two year old and she tells him gm,gn and hey all the time she just pulls my shirt up and starts talking
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