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9650087 tn?1409135110

Not a question just vent

My bd got arrested yesterday he could get time waiting to find out busted out crying when they took him still crying now couldnt sleep stomach hurt head hurt cant even eat feel sick just going thru it if they lock him up he could get 30 to 90 days possibly a year and im almost 3 months pregnant and the officers didnt give a f*** about me period i couldve been stranded anything
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9650087 tn?1409135110
He gettong out he gotra d communtiy service but if he dont do it he a get a couple years on prision
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9650087 tn?1409135110
Family but dnt mess with each other they just as crooked
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Do you have family or friends any where else besides Detroit
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9650087 tn?1409135110
They a do and they told me they self when he see the judge he could get relesed out the front do or get charged and either get a bond or go to cpunty and we already going thru it im tryna find a job and s is he money is hard
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Yes Detroit is very corrupt.  You guys need to get outta there.  Not a place to raise a baby.  I'm from the east coast, but live in the west coast now,  & still never heard of any one getting jail time for a misdemeanor.
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9650087 tn?1409135110
Cause he got a anger problem then a attitudw peoblem but to be honest i think they took him cause i got a attitude with the police but i dnt want him to do no time period cause detroi is crooked and he constantly tries to call
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Maybe they'll give him 30 days at the most.  But i doubt it.  Even if it was on a church.  Just depends on the judge!  But he won't get a year,  I'm positive!  
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9650087 tn?1409135110
And it was on a church
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9650087 tn?1409135110
Detroit
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It's still only a misdemeanor.  My ex got caught with a gun,  drugs,  and had a warrant out for his arrest,  only ended up getting 9 months.  Your guy will be fine hun ;)
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That's okay,  they can't punish him for having tattoos, only for the crime.  Where are you from
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9650087 tn?1409135110
And then on top of that all his tats gang related except a few
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9650087 tn?1409135110
But they caught him in the act and it was gang related writing
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Coming from someone who dated a major drug dealer for 2 years and he went to jail 9 times. Been through it all girl.  He'll be fine.  Just tell him to keep his *** outta trouble!
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He definitely won't get a year hun.  He prolly won't even get locked up actually. Since it's his first offense and it's only a misdemeanor,  he'll more then likely get a slap in the wrist, fines,  community service etc.
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9650087 tn?1409135110
Yea
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Is it his first offense?
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9650087 tn?1409135110
Destruction of property misdemeanor
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What did he do to get arrested? If you don't mind me asking?
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Ik its just hard cause even though we argueand fight it feel like i lost my better half its not too much to where we really be apart and they constantly lying to me said he was going to court today and we a find out if they gone charge him or not and i called they saying he not on the list for court and if he dont. Do. It tomorrow he a be there till monday i dnt want him to get charged cause then he a miss majority of my pregnancy
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Its ok hun we are in the same boat my bd got locked up last Thursday but all you can do is pray about it. Everything gone be ok I promise you but please don't stress hun you could lose your bundle of joy.
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