need advice on bad bf

[javarose93]

hello in a mental abusive relationship with an evil guy.
anyone else been in this situation?
wounds are inside not outside. do I make any sense? 33 weeks pregnant and need help.

[Jennyleigha]

So nice for a dad to respond in this post. I too have been in this situation, tho I didn't have a baby with him, I had a son of my own. I have never been happier after I left him. I am with my now husband for almost nine years, we are expecting our fourth, my fifth.

[Rippy_Baby]

I was in an inside/outside abusive relationship years ago with the father of my son.... #1- I stayed because I wanted a "family" and for my son to have his dad #2- because I thought he would change.....  #1- I DO have a real FAMILY... and hes NOT part of it. #2- he NEVER changed--- even with the females after me. I look back and wish I had left years before I actually did....

[Bethplas]

Get away now!  If you are having to ask then it's not healthy for you or the baby.  Get away asap would you want him to be that way to your child?  Because he will and then your child will be that way to someone.  If you fear leaving will make him mad and act out call the police or an abusive hotline.  It's not something to mess with.  Trust me your child will need a lot of counseling.  

[golddustwoman29]

I've been trough abuse ,and i can tell you won't stop.it will just get worse..you need to leave asap!

[bethyd42]

Get out of there.. I had the same thing. My ex (father of bub) was a horrible guy. Been to prison for murder. My wounds were inside and outside.. very abusive. And it took for him to break my finger for me to finally leave, but he did alot worse then that! Get out while you can girlfriend.. its totally worth it

[expectingdad614]

Hey I seen this and had to respond im an expecting dad am truleyyy excitied I use this app to keep track of my fiance so I no everything thats going on. As a man I have no tolerance for any man direspecting the soon to be mother of his child he needs to know that the more he screams and yells the more the baby will come out with some sorta mental problems ibsay mental problems like stress and what not.. ive never had a kid before as this will be my first and ive been non stop hiting the books. You as a woman are strong mentally and physically and need no man that will cause u and your soon to be baby any harm or abuse. You need to call the police and have a order of protection put on him and have him take anger management before u have him near the baby. And if and I mean if he cleans up his act u should have him have supervised vists u can have them in what we call safe haven were a officer will be present. You do not meed this as u are about to bring life into this world and I comend u for doing so please save your self from that cause ur soo much better. Theres plunty of good guys left out there dont settle for a loser hope I helped a lil good luck :)

[jamarismomi]

sad situation how men can talk down to yhe same person who is giving them life i have been in that situation before but it was physical and mental it hurts i know exactly how you feel no woman deserves to be hit or looked down upon i know its hard especially if you love them to get out trust these type of men will get into your head but get out for your son he needs to learn to nurture and take care of a woman not treat her poorly just make sure you keep your head up and smile honey if he sees he has you feeling some type of way he will only feed off this....good luck and be blessed

[MissJessGolden]

If you truly have had enough you will leave for good. My fiance had a verbally abusive relationship with his mother and finally,  at the age of 21, decides enough is enough and hasn't talked to her in a few months and won't allow her near our son. It takes time but you will feel much better once you finally leave for good.

[javarose93]

thank you all. I've been on a merry go round of leaving and going back to him but I have to be strong for baby boy

[MrsLollyRupert]

I've been in a physically/mentally abusive relationship before.  I always made it a point not to complain about the situation until I was out of it. Complaining with no action is pointless.  The fact that you are posting on here shows that you at least know better than to be in that situation,  but you have to be willing to do what's right for you and your child. If you are living with him and don't think you have any where to go, there are places that can assist you and even confiding in family or close friends can be beneficial. You never know who is willing to help you until you open up to them. Good luck to you.

[mamaheba]

When men treat you that way it's time to get out,  I was in your spot before and leaving was the best thing for me!  Not only will he treat you that way but also your child and make the the child think this behavior is OK.  Do you and your baby a favor and get out now!  It only gets worse if you stay

[Baylie2015]

it's easy for us as women to think we need someone no matter how they treat us, but you never know and worth until you name yourself better. it's easier said than done to get out of that your of relationship, but until you didn't realise you can do better you will stay there. build up the courage to walk away.... with forgiveness nothing more nothing less and u pray for him and yourself

[xcitednscaredmama]

Try to get out of it asap. You and your baby deserve a supportive daddy. Does any of your family or friends know?