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boyfriends mom

My boyfriends mom hates me ever since she found out i was pregnant she doesnt even call me by my name she calls me "that girl" everytime i go to my bd house i try not to say anything and bw disrespectful because thats his mom , she also says i ruined his life when hes 21 and im 19 i think hes a grown man and he doesnt need babying . He pays all his moms bills and now that im pregnant were getting our own place . What are your opinion about it i feel like she hates me because im takeing her bank away
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Shes not ill at all , my bd is in the army and when hes gone he pays rent , light , water , buys food . And when hes back he works for the army down here and still expects him to do the same thing .. shes not ill at all , all she does is complain all day she would even get mad when i would stay the night
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That girl?? How very RUDE! You would think she would be a little more appreciative when your man is supporting her. Maybe she feels the gravy train will be cut off once the babys here as children are more of an expense. Your bf is not responsible for her bills and she should be thankful. My MIL would say some insulting things and i stopped coming around. Once you get your own place away from her life will be easier. I would just be polite and let her BS go in one ear and out the other.  Sounds like your MIL has sour grapes and perhaps may have some jealousy issues or bitterness. Dont let her ruin your relationship or rain on your parade because right now is suppose to be a happy time for you and your man.  YOUR HAVING A BEAUTIFUL BABY!! :)  Congrats and good luck!
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I agree with all don't disrespect her because of her foolishness plus she super mad she gonna have to pay her own bills is she ill or something do she work that she can't pay her own bills
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I would be asking him why he is letting her refer to you in this manner. Yes, respect her, as she is your man's mother. You should also be respected by her as the mother of her grandchild! If he doesn't stand up for you about what you know she's saying, then what does he act like when you're not around?
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I usually dont curse,  but I agree with #shynjahmya mom **** da *****! Dont disrespect her cause she your mans mom. But keep your distance. After all its obvious who your bd choose since his moving in with you;)
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Keep your distance and kill her with kindess. My mil reffer to me "your wife"
Or "this girl" when talking to my husband.
I just try my best to ignore her and still b nice even f shes fake
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**** dat *****... just keep yo distance & try not to disrespect her but mii bd moms is nonexistent so at least she call u dat girl vs. Nothing at all
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