So I'm having two babyshowers one by my sister in-laws and the other by my sisters nd mother, there both suppose to be in november sense I'm due in early January, but nobody from Ether side has said anything about it anymore, and I really don't feel right asking ether one about it because what if maybe they really didint want to throw me one, so I'm stuck here, I would like to know, because I have been wanting to start buying everything that the baby is going to need but I can't buy anything because what if someone gets me that item, now I have brought it up with both and they say yeah and talk a bit about it but Its already one month away and I don't think Nether are preparing anything if anything is going to be done, now I might sound a bit crazy,but I'm just a very organized person and I don't like things being done all at the least minutes. What should I do I'm begging to stress so much