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feeling down... :(

During my whole pregnancy my sex drive took a dive. I never want it any more. And if I do it's pretty rare. I know my husband hates it, but respects me. This morning I was in the mood when we were laying in bed, and I told him let's have sex. Of course I'm not going to jump on him and ride him because I'm almost 9 months pregnant and feel like a whale, and I just don't feel ccute. He usually jumps at a chance to have sex with me and he did nothing... long story short we didn't have sex and he said he wanted to do it later at night, when most likely I won't be in the mood. I feel like I'm not attractive to him anymore. Like he Jst doesn't want to have sex because I'm 160lbs. I feel so down and sad about it :(
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I've had the same thing happen to me these past 9 months... I think my bf and I have done it maybe 7 times if that... I feel so bad about it but I'm never in the mood... and when I do get turned on I get contractions.....  lately I've wanted to make more of an effort to do it but now he's the one that doesn't want to :( i know how you feel
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It's common to lose your drive. Damn hormones!
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It may be him thinking about how he could hurt the baby talk to him about it
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