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10089517 tn?1407726272

feeling useless

My bf got into a bad motorcycle accident when I was four months pregnant.  I lost my job for being by his side. He was In the trauma center and had to be revived twice. ( yea says a lot about my boss.. I was out two days before I was let go)
Well its been really hard looking for a job and I've even been discriminated and filled a claim with the EEOC. I clean and cook..prep his bag for work.. but I just feel like im not doing my part.. especially when we are just making ends meet. : ( I've just been feeling down and he always says its fine.. but I know its not. I left my ex because he did nothing for two years except smoke weed and play video games. I got tired of it.. I dont want my current "father to be" feeling that way...
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Good luck!!
Our court is on the end of September! Kind of nerve wrecking to wait that long!
Let me know how it goes:)
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10089517 tn?1407726272
Thanks for the encouragement.  Its nice to know im not the only one.  We go to court today.. hopefully everything goes well..
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Keep your head up! I know how you feel, I am going through some tough times also.. I am pregnant with my first baby.. I found out that I was pregnant the day I got into a car accident, and the doctors told me at the hospital that I am also pregnant. The troubles kept piling on, my husband got arrested because some guy set him up, and now is facing prison time. I quit my job because of my back problems from the car accident, and I am completely dependent on my husband. If he is going to be put in jail, then I am going to lose everything.. But I am still trying to keep my head up and not worry so much.. Its hard to do, knowing what could happen. But one thing I learned is to trust God, He will provide. Stay strong, and try not to stress out, because especially right now, as mothers, we need to protect our babies.
Good luck with everything! Try to stay positive ;)
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Just keep your head up high, everything is gonna be okay.
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10089517 tn?1407726272
I live in southwest florida
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where do u live like what area?
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