feelings

[marijana19]

I have been having mixed feelings about this baby, one day i am so excited and cant wait to meet my baby and then one day i am so scared and feel like i dont want it... i get scared if i'll be a good mom or if i'm even ready... this is my first baby and i'm scared when there's something wrong i wont know how to handle it... or that i wont raise my child well , i have tons of thoughts running through my head :(
My husband and i planned for this baby and sometimes i think it was maybe a rash decision and we didnt think through it... my husband is really excited for the baby and so am i, its just that sometimes i get worried...
has anyone else have these kind of feelings? Is it just hormones? :(
and yeah, please dont judge me and write comments how horrible person i am.

[7ena]

Hey you are definitely not the only one ice had those too, this is my first pregnancy as well so it could just be emotions:) good luck

[3D_Mom]

I'm on my third child and I'm still a little nervous. It could be the hormones or just wanted to do well and not let the kids down. It will be just fine don't worry.

[starfirecrazy]

Im 24 weeks and this is my first pregnancy i go back and forth all the time if it was the right choice to keep the baby and not adopt. I'm not married though and I've been back and forth with my babies dad. But he's excited and I usually am too. I just get nervous. Hormones i believe. Try talking to your husband.

[th986]

I had it at the beginning of my pregnancy...the first few weeks. I would get up in the middle of the night scared to death. Now I accepted I won't be perfect but will do my best. It should be enough.
Btw. Vidim da smo sunarodnjakinje. :) Bit ce sve ok. To je valjda znak inteligencije biti svjestan da nisi savrsen i koliko je neki zadatak velik. ;) Pozz!

[Thornhillmama]

I have 3 little ones and am expecting my 4th. I was the same way with my first one, I was like what am I suppose to do with him? I didn't know anything about babies.  But once he got here I couldn't believe I could love someone so much, I would die for him and it killed me to think of something happening to him. They are pure little bundles of joy that love and depend on you completely.  You are their everything! You'll do fine, just give them your love.

[Eli_yaa_darko]

I am 8 weeks pregnant and sometimes am asking my self the same questions, so I think it's a hormones, but maybe u be a great mother it's just scare. But God will be with you.

[aharrison87]

Its ok honey u just need to talk to someone.  Its scary having a baby and then u add those hormones that make ya all crazy feeling. U will do great u just need some good support

[6140619]

I was like that at first ,I knew I was pregnant but since I didn't have medicaid I could get checked or anything ,but I always feel super sick to the point that I start shaking I puke like 20+ times a day and at night I would wake up and tell me self I didn't want it cause I was alone and I don't have friends and I would feel like dying ,but a few days after that I went to the hospital and they made me my first ultrasound and when the doctor told me the baby it was fully formed like you could see his head and body and he was moving his little arms up and down and I just started to cry because it's a mini me ,and its alive lol but now ,I'm 15 weeks and I can't wait to have it ♥

[missymarie214]

I'm a ftm also, and have found it's completely normal to have those feelings. I'm 38 weeks, and could have my little man any day, and I'm still scared to death. Of course we're going to be anxious and unsure, it's our first time taking on literally the most important role in the world. But from what I've heard from other mothers, as soon as you hold your baby, all of that goes away, instinct kicks in, and motherhood goes into full effect. Whenever I have those feelings, I just remind myself that this is what us ladies are built for, and nobody can do this job better than we can! Just try to push those thoughts away if you can, and focus on how amazing life is going to be! You've got this, Momma! (:

[desraiee92]

It may be the hormones... I sometimes feels that my child will resent his father because he's in the military and isn't going to be around like I am.. and how do u tell ur kid " daddy is doin this for us and for our country"
So sweetie ur not alone.. just pray about it.. no one is really ready for mother hood.. put it in God's hands and u guys will be just fine