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Ugh mother inlaw bugging about this baby!!!!!!!!

I'm 38 weeks and she won't leave me alone. I know we are all excited and anxious and want her here ASAP, but every 5 mins she telling me to do something different! why are you just laying down blah blah blah, ehhh I'm tired my back hurts my feet are swollen, maybe that's why I'm laying down!!!! Today is my baby's fathers birthday so she's nagging to have her today like I have that power -_______- it's just making me so mad and annoyed. I lock myself in my room and there she is knocking like crazy making me get up!!!!!

I just told her, this baby will come when she's ready I'm not going to do all kinds of different things to get her out!!! If my baby wants her own bday then so be it, I also told her you will be the first one to know when it's time WE LIVE TOGETHER!!!!!! I hope I wasn't harsh on her it's just uhhhhhhh I want her here also but she's driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!
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Lmao oh god are out mother in laws related!!! I swear they are cuz she was living with usu first pregnancy and she was exactly the same finally I broke down on tears and screams and just leaid into her(which I don't really recommend cuz its hard on ur relationship) bit them she backed off and when she tried to start up again my hubby noticed and said something and that was the end of that for theost part lmao!
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This is one reason why didn't want to move in with hubby. I don't want nobody telling me nothing. When I do go by she asks did u go to the Dr what they say. Idk she's nice but she's been giving me this vibe lately. I'm not in the mood to hear it from her if my own mother don't tell me nothing why should I have to hear from anyone else.  At one point she would constantly tell me you're so swollen and telling everyone right she's swollen like OK I get it.
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Welcome hope you can get her to calm down lol
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Yes thanks lady's !!!!
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Ohan my mother in law is like that!! She was way worse with my first one like yours is being but she is constantly nagging about me not putting my hands over my head and lifting my two sons who r 2 and 10 months. Finally I told her I am pregnant not handicapped ( not that there is anything wrong with that) and that is how she was treating me besides those r old wives tails amywho. Sometimes you just have to be a little mean to be comfortable and if you should be anything right now it is comfortable in your own space!
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My in law annoys me too smh shes always calling and telling me to stop working and being active I turn 32 weeks soon and its driving me crazy because I hate being lazy and not do anything. I want to get to do w.e I can
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lol well.... I wouldn't go that far!!! It's just really annoying but I wouldn't threaten her like that
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Honestly, I'd leave when it was time for the baby and not tell her what was going on, but I'm that kind of person.

You could always threaten her with not being able to see the baby at the hospital. :) You have the say of who can be there and who can't.
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I know don't get me wrong I love that lady it's their first grandchild but there's only so much I can handle right now!!
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Girl I think she doing to much.u do t need that u already have ur own problems. To have someone nagging n bugging u allday .smh
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