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[newmom2b27]

Please ladies if at anytime u feel the need to ask a public forum who ur child's father maybe please don't please do the responsible thing and keep that bit of info of not knowing who ur child's father maybe to ur self and test the men after baby is born as I nor anyone else can tell u who fathered ur child thank you

[newmom2b27]

This is stupid at this point clearly I struck a nerve by having an opinion u can be mad if u want but having an opinion does not make me mean or hormonal it makes me a person with a brain who can think for herself it would have been mean for me to go on each post about paternity and say something crazy which I did not do I simply expressed my opinion on my post on the issue and again DNA is the only way to tell if someone is truly the father of a child in any situation where their are multiple partners I never judged anyone on any specific situation so u should stop accusing me of doing so I just said that paternity is a matter that should be handled through DNA testing not asking others to pick one

[kj_skibum]

"NEWMOM" is having pregnancy related hormonal issues or, just may be a "Mean Girl".

I have always been in monogamous relationships....but lady, crap happens in others lives....date rape can occur, and a night of poor judgement after going through a break up or on again off again relationship is not so highly unusual.

I believe the poster knew in her heart she would need a DNA test...but it us the weekend, Dr. Office is closed, and the test won't be run till baby is born...the mom is stressing and needs some reassurance.

If you don't have anything nice to say, refrain and say nothing at all.

Women with class who found the original post offensive certainly did not take the time to initiate a post on the subject.

NEWMOM, you are either classless, judgemental, mean, or horomonal. I hope it's just your horomones and you can go back to being a loving, kind, classy, gracious lady soon!

[kiki24115]

Thats not true....i foloowed my ovulation calender made sure me and my mate didnt have unprotected  sex...to my surprise that month i ovulated a week later...doctor said not every woman ovulates exactly based off of a calendar....that is why im a firm believer in going to a doctor for clarification....not even going in deep with the whole dna thing but if you worried get a test...be fair to your child as well as the men...my point exactly the forum isnt answered by doctors...however lots of women want to act like they are one

[newmom2b27]

Well I'm sorry ur feelings are hurt but this was not me being insensitive trust me this was an opinion u should check ur emotions if u think this is insensitive especially if u think its the rudest thing on this forum

[AshleyNina123]

This is the most inscentitive comment I've read on here. Who cares? Also, all the hostile comments you've had back...I hope you don't treat others like that. You have a lot of growing up todo.

[RockRose]

kiki,  you don't have to be a licensed physician to look at a calendar and tell a very scared mom that the chances the baby she terribly fears was conceived during a break up and some very foolish behavior is likely not the result of her affair.

All it takes is a calendar.

These forums aren't answered by doctors.  There are doctor moderated forums on MedHelp,  but this advice is just from other posters.

And reading these forums for a long time,  I've seen some really,  really good advice and bad advice is almost always corrected quickly.