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gender?

How many other moms are not going to find out the gender of their baby? I'm 22 weeks and it feels like it will be an eternity before i finally get to know on delivery day :)
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I'm 28 wks and I'm not finding out
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Wow thats so crazy and sad :(
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So true
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Illegally* not immigrant.. Darn typo
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Indian culture does not allow you to find out the gender of the baby because gendercide is extremely common there. Indian culture typically values boys and alot of abortions/abandonments/adoptions/ even murder happen when a woman finds out she is having a girl and they are trying very hard to change this mindset. However behind closed doors and if you can pay a Dr off, they can immigrant go get a us done to determine the sex.
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I'm 29 weeks and we aren't finding out. So excited for the big surprise at delivery! It'll be an extra something to push for at the end. We found out with our first at hubby's request but this is our second and last and I really wanted the excitement that my mama had when she delivered her babies. Nobody knew back then, and everything turned out okay.
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I'm 8 weeks and i want to know don't know how people go full term
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I'm dying to know, I'm 23 weeks and my baby not cooperating
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I'm 35 weeks (FTM) and my Husband and I haven't found out the sex of our baby. I have no problem with people who do, for me personally though it would be like knowing what's in your Christmas presents before you open them, we feel like we'd loose the wonder, excitement and magic of the pregnancy and child birth :-) Plus we're getting super dooper excited as the we're so close to having our little Bambino now :-D Good luck to you ladies x
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Don't give in Nette! I have two already which I found out the sex, this is our last baby so we want to be suprised at least once. I wanted to look so bad when she told us to turn away at the anatomy scan but I didnt and I'm glad because I would have been very disappointed in myself
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I'm having a baby boy :)
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This is my fourth and last and we are "trying" not to find out. I'd like it to be a surprise. I found out with all of the others. I don't know if we will be able to last being that we haven't had our ultrasound that can tell the gender. We might cave in and find out in desperation. Lol. But I hope we stick to the plan.
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Oh my goodness I didn't know that about Indian culture! Very interesting, is there a reason it's considered a crime? Or is that just how it has always been?
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I'm having a baby girl!
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I don't know whether it's a boy or girl, I'm 35w5days ftm. I couldn't able 2 find out bcoz I'm Indian n here finding sex of a foetus is a crime.
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