Baby daddy is just being worried. With my first my husband didn't want me to touch the microwave or have ice water. He eventually relaxed and I even went out with him to his pool league nights (at bars) throughout the pregnancy and had several girls nights at some local clubs.
It won't hurt the baby any just watch out for alcohol and second hand smoke. If you keep going late on in pregnancy, then start to watch out for people bumping the belly.
Thank you all and I don't think smoking is allowed in that club and well drinking i used to drink when we would go out but it's not like it will tempt me... It's just for like 2 months we've been going out like every weekend but ever since i found out I'm pregnant we haven't gone out and well we don't live together but he just tells me he doesn't want to risk it and he rather for us to not go but tha k you all I don't think it's bad to go out not just cause I'm pregnant doesn't mean I can't go out and have fun... But he says I shouldn't be going out anymore that it could affect me especially since it took 6 yrs for me to finally get pregnant and I didn't know what to think.
Honestly I don't think there's anything at a club that will effect the baby however if you buy a water or soda, guard it with your life. This might be the last time you guys get to go out and do this. Since he would prefer you to stay home, is he willing to stay home with you?
If you two really enjoy clubbing you may want to look for something else you can do for fun as a couple
Music shouldn't affect your baby's hearing at 9 wks. The only thing I would worry about maybe of 2nd hand smoke if it's allowed at this club other than that it wouldn't be bad for you to go and enjoy it like you would usually do (except for drinking if you do drink).
Well idk if you like to drink, if so, it might be tempting to have just one drink which could be bad. Also, if smoking is allowed in the club the second hand smoke could hurt your baby, even cause SIDS later on. People could bump into you.. its your choice just think of the type of enviornment it is and then decide for your self. At only 9 weeks, the music shouldn't affect your baby.