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So im 19 weeks Today. My bf and i have been having a tough cpl days. He suffers from anxiety and depression. Well when i got home from work he packed all his clothes and left without a note or anything. This isn't the first time he has done it. I haven't heard from him since. If he comes back do i take him back?? Or say no way?? Ugh
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I wouldn't b quick to call things off either.men have a different way you of dealing with their emotions. Maybes he is just afraid.I've been n that boat before n some friends n usually that is the case. While it does suck I say give communication a try first n get the the root of how he feels n let him know how u feel. Now that u guys share a child.communication is a big factor to ensure the best future for the child. Communication is like oxygen to any relationship. Ijs don't b quick to give up while I'm just an outsider looking in I know from experience raising a child alone n being a single parent is very difficult n not just that.the child usually ends up suffering as well. Good luck however hope things work out for u
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Well, i think youn should have a good conversation with hum because isnt about hum ot just about you. Now, YOU BOTH have another life to deal with. You cant live with the situation like this. The healthy of you and you babe is more important.

This is what i think. Im 35 weeks and i have this vision right now. I love so.much my husband and he loves me a lot but... Well, like i (22 years)say to him (22 years), my baby first!!
Hope i help you.
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I wouldn't either until he gets some help. That would b really sad if he just up and left after the baby is here or old enough to know that daddy left. Sorry u r going thru this :(
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I wouldn't take him back. Because, if you countinue to take him back he's going to countinue to do the same thing. You have a child to think about now, and does your child deserve to come home one day to find their father has just up and left.
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