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14089185 tn?1439417585

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Guys just think its so easy to be pregnant and everything is normal with us and we dont go through any pain and etc , like hellooooo we have babies growing in us ! Lol my boyfriend swears like its the easiest thing ever , its baby number 2 for me and i still complain about everything haha .
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Hahaha I agree with you, my bf is the same way! I'm also on baby number 2 and my son is 1 and he gets into everything and bf wants the whole house to be clean from top to bottom and everything else and I'm lazy this pregnancy..
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14089185 tn?1439417585
Awww haha my daughter is 8months so shes barely starting to crawl and shes everywhere aswell im going through the same thing girl lol
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My bf thinks it's all mental -__-  im pregnant with my first and I complain about everything lol he thinks it's easy growing a human inside of me like hellll noooo it's not lol
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Lol my husband was the same way, until I gave him a taste of what its really like. We have a 2 year old daughter and I'm 6 months pregnant so I went and got a belly that you can attached to your body so it kinda feels like your pregnant. I told him if he cooks clean feeds changes play and showers our daughter and can handle everything I wouldn't ever complain about my pains for the rest of my pregnancy. Wow! 45 min I got a call while I was at the store and he didn't know how to work our washer, couldn't find any of our daughters stuff to bathe or change her and he was complaing that his back hurted really bad. Oh yea and he was starving Lol so I came back and he apologized, he didn't know how hard it is to be a mom until I put him in my shoes. Don't get me wrong he is the best dad in the world but he will never get mad at my complains lol
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Luciakiki...I'm glad your husband understands you more...but he only went threw half of what we go threw.
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Wow actually my man had all my sickness with my first. .lol and now he has my cravings..he even feels labor pains in the delivery room lol
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Wow, I was fortunate that my BF started having sympathy pains shortly around the same times I did. And he already has problems with his back, so whenever I get stiff in mine he understands completely. Plus, he's also backed off a lot since my feet started swelling already. He actually tells me to rest most of the time... I counted myself lucky before, and now I really do. :p
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My boyfriend only has cravings and is very sleep I never had morning sickness but he is very caring and it's our first child I would expect him to complain but he doesn't he comes home or text me asking me if im OK or did I drink my water have I ate and he rubs my back and stomach when we lay down....  he is very caring and gets so scared if I say something hurts or if I'm tired he'll lay me down and let me rest while he sits in the living room
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Right there with you. My man claims i turned crazy ever since i became pregnant. :/ even a simple conversation can spiral down w/ us.
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I'm quite lucky my bf is very sympathetic with all I'm dealing with amd all the pains and symptoms of pregnancy. We have been through some tough times tho (worst of which was our son being stillborn), so he gets how hard it all is for me as he's dealing with some levels of anxiety with me. I'm very lucky to have him.
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It can be very hectic to be preg ryt? I am now called unstable. My man, thinks i dont think straight. But,  poor man. He sympathises with me. I so loved it when he got the morning sicknesses like i did in my first trimester. I love the idea of a man carrying a fake tummy. Where can i get one?
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My husband has been pretty great and understanding. Telling me not to worry and rest, that he can cook or do the dishes when im tired. But i feel guilty alot of the time relying on him he works full time and its hard on him having to come home and take care of me. I feel like im been lazy but been pregnant is hard and tiring and bc i have arthritis as well im often in alot of pain. So grateful that he is so nice about it. This is our 1st
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It seems like sometimes my man can be understanding and other times not so much. I mean he is definitely protective and he always worries and wants me and the baby to be OK. But then at the same time I feel like be doesn't really understand what Im going through and how much I actually do for all of us. You know a back or foot rub would be nice every once in awhile. Or even if surprised me with a little something every once in awhile like a bag of skittles or a drink from sonic. It would just show me that he cares and is here for me.  I just want him to understand how exhausting and uncomfortable pregnancy can be.
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My husband is the worst. I'm in preterm labor was in the hospital for six hours until they stopped labor with Injections and have me on bed rest and medication to stop labor and my husband still made me do the dishes and bath our two kids and Cook when we got home while he slept on the couch and I'm over here having 7 contractions an hour ;( I hate him SK much right now. He doesn't get it. He won't help me. He won't let me rest. He won't rub my back. I just want to kick him really hard in the balls so he experiences a fraction of the pain I feel all day.
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