he lied ::tear::

[MrsChrisTaylor]

My husband said he was ready for another child....even knew when I was ovulating bc I told him...I thought we wanted the same thing, but I was wrong :'( now when he comes home from work we are going to have a talk. Just found out we are definitely pregnant today :'( I was so happy, but now this. He said he was jusy giving me what I wanted knowing he "isn't ready for another kid"... now I feel like this was just a big mistake. Now I feel like I can't tell him of anything I want in fear of him doing something he doesn't want to resluting in hurt. I'm so crushed. I told my family and they are happy....I wanted another child, but not like this :'( how do I deal? Uhg fml

[MrsChrisTaylor]

Maybe it is just cold feet idk that's why we have to talk. I don't want to be alone in this :'( that isn't fair at all. If what he is saying now is truly how he feels then he needs to work on his communication skills. The reason I'm so confused is bc for the past 6months he was saying how badly he wanted this....that hurts so bad. I just thought we were a team :'(

[MommyMakwa00]

Hun try and be calm, my boyfriend of over a year begged and begged for a baby, now that we are a few weeks from delivery he had a freak out and said he's not ready and he can't do it, so I told him I'd respect his wishes and go and raise the baby on my own. As I began to pack he wouldn't let me out the door and apologized saying it was a moment of weakness and he couldn't imagine not having us in his life. Guys get cold feet, but when it comes down to it, if he truly loves you he will get back on track for you guys :) best of luck girl.

[expectinBby2]

Im so very sorry tgis should b happy time for both of u i wanna hope tht hes jus scared n jus dnt kno how to react n it comes of wrong but hopefully as time goes by he grows closer to u n baby.....jus stay strong tht baby needs u n loves u already.....#willbprayin4u.........#Mothrhood

[LilyRay]

Maybe he will come around. My fiancé and I weren't planning a baby for awhile because he didn't want another cause he has 2 kids a daughter from a previous marriage and our son. But this baby surprised us and he has come around. He was mad for like a day or 2 but after that he was fine and accepting of it but we both agree this is it for us I'm getting my tubes tied.