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hubbys watching porn?

So I went to set my hubvys alarm on his phone and unlocked it BAM porn ... I just clicked off and set the alarm idk if he knows I saw it. But seriously I try not to let it bug me I do t wanna be that psycho girl in his life. I think it bugs me because I'm 25 w pregnant and I don't feel so attractive ... and I compleatly understand I don't like to have sex as much as we used to obvisly so I try not to care. But deep down it bugs me he'd rather watch porn and go to bed other then even try to have sex after i get out toddler to bed at night .... does anyone have this issue how do u deal with it??
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I went off on him about it befor and his brother would make comments like at least I can watch porn and stuff so its like I know he talks **** on me about it... I almost left him over that and he seriously never let's me live it down when ever it gets brought up he acts like in the psycho one..  so I keep it to myself... he lied about it n stuff. I think he gets embarrassed and trays to cover it up.
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I was just talking to my fiance after I read your post.  Even he finds it terribly disrespectful to the woman carrying his child. I would definitely talk to him about it, don't just hold it in and let it fester up. I'm sorry you have to deal with that!
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I don't like him having girls that our his friend and he doesn't like the fact I work in a male dominated work place and have to deal with a lot of guys. Still talk to him and somehow figure out how you will bring it up and show him if he doesn't delete his history on his phone. Talk to him and tell him how much you hate it and everything, he might understand how much it hurts you and I hope he doesn't do it anymore after that.
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O well that's dif. If he doesnt like u to watch it with him. Would def have a talk.  & I get that u feel like since he is the provider u don't wanna b naggy but, f that lol I hold my house down. He may pay the bills but this is my house.  Lol he'd b the first to leave b4i do.  But, point is you're in a relationship.  No matter who is the breadwinner or not,  you both should be treated with the same amount of respect.
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My fiancé always watches porn on his phone or looks at naked pictures and I told him straight up its either that nasty crap or your daughter that's about to be born in a couple weeks. I made him debate that, I know its wrong but I don't want that on a phone that's on my bill or around my daughter at all and I told him that. If he watches it again we definitely over and to say good bye to actually being around your daughter a lot more and to pay me child support because I will take all of it if not more from your pay checks every week. If he wants to he a father/dad to his daughter he better man up and have sex with me and eyes only for me no matter what.
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I Think Its Foul, That Being Said,We Have No "I'mNot In Th Mood" If One Of Us Wants It, We Give It. This Is Our Second Pregnancy.
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