Aa
hurt...
So I was in the store with my fiance an my son we were going to look at baby strollers an cribs since I haven't found one I liked yet (29 weeks btw) my fiance out of nowhere just yells "I'm tired of looking at this stuff all its doing is reminding me of the misteak I've made." This really hurt me because now he doesn't want to buy anything for the baby not even diapers or clothes which are the cheap things. Knowing that I'm not working I keep telling him the baby is going be here in 2 months. All he says is you will get everything at the baby shower no I won't. I know what I'm getting at the baby shower an my daughter is only going to have clothes an diapers. I'm afraid she is going to be born without a crib or having anything she really needs. Idk what to do anymore. I'm so hurt I can't even sleep in the same room as him.
That's so mean. I would never allow a comment like that. That's just more stress on you and your baby. He sounds resentful and no matter the situation, no expecting father would act that way in public. Thank goodness you aren't married yet. Hopefully he changes when the baby comes for your sake and your families. Sounds like his mother is a piece of work for not talking or supporting the both of you. This should be an exciting time for her as well and she's just "okay" with it. Hope the situation gets better.
Is getting all the 'stuff' you think you need for your baby girl worth suffering through an emotional unfulfilling engagement and eventual marriage? He does not sound like husband material.
please dont take him on you dont need to added stress to your pregnancy if you have girlfriends ask one or two of them to go with you for support dont mention anything to him about the baby at all if he realises that you are doing what you have to without him and he will feel bad make yourself happy a happy mom is a happy baby
Id just take his credit card and go the the store by myself. F it. I hope it gets better for you.
Well if that's the case he is being really rude!! You dont need the stress he is bringing. You will be ok without him!
WOW! What a thing to say to your wife to be and mother of his child. He is a huge *******!! I would definitely reconsider marrying him. How is having a child with the woman he plans to marry a mistake? Thats not a loving thing to say AT ALL. That's not cold feet, thats just cold hearted and uncalled for!!
His mom is okay with it I guess. I don't talk to her. An I did talk to him an it didn't change a thing. I'm just going to do it by myself
Honestly if my boyfriend acted like that I would consider leaving him.
F*ck him! I would have punched my boyfriend if he did that. If you want to add stuff to your,registry go ahead and do it. You don't need some a**hole telling you what to do or what he thinks a baby needs. You're your baby's mother you register for whatever you need and want your baby to have
That was really mean what he said. I had a friend once who had her boyfriend say something to that extent before. Is this the first time he made you feel that way? How does his family feel about him having this new baby? He may just be a little scared. Sometimes it can get stressful and overwhelming. There is no excuse for what he said but I really truly believe that he just said it out of frustration. You should talk to him let him know he hurt you and ask him what made him so frustrated. After all you guys ate connected for life and communication is key. I'm so sorry you had to feel this way!
I wouldn't take him there excited or not men don't get into the things we like to do as much I picked out everything on my on I have for my baby and got suggestions from women I graduated with I will even put everything together myself if I have too because in the end if he doesn't do anything or if no one steps up this is my baby and I will have to take care of him regaurdless
It hurt me so bad I just walked out of the store crying. Its to the point where I don't want to take him with me when I go an add things to my registry.
He will try and change when she arrives and regret ever saying that idk how he can really cone back from something that harsh though.
He treats him great. An hes not his dad that's his step son so this is our first baby together an our first daughter an its like idk what to do I love him an I want him there for my daughter but he's not showing he cares to be there.
A mistake? Well thank God he's just a fiance because if my boyfriend ever called our child a mistake I KNOW he wouldn't be the one id be marrying! Excuse my laguange but that's *********t! how are you even gonna put up with the fact that he just up and yelled (and in PUBLIC) that your baby is a mistake. And now he doesn't e be em want to but anything that the baby needs!? It sounds like he doesnt even care anymore and he's over it. how does he treat your first child?
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