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i just love my unborn baby :(

so scared on telling my parents this is my second pregnancy and it was planned . Telling my parents about the first one , i told them the day i found out . They kicked me out and made me terminate the pregnancy because it looked " bad on them " after that they made me move back in and act like nothing happened . im 11 weeks now and dont know how or when to tell them.. advice anyone ?
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Your parents cannot make you have an abortion. Sorry but sweetie of I were you, I would tell my parents f*** you, I'm having the baby.
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Oh, friend, I'm glad you're reaching out for help and I'm sorry you feel like your parents may pressure you into an abortion. In light of this and other obvious reasons, I can understand why you're nervous about bringing this up with them. So, maybe it would be helpful for you to try and get some support from a local crisis pregnancy center. I know they have experience helping girls in your shoes, and I'm sure they could assist you in talking your pregnancy over with your parents. So, if you think that might be helpful, I'd suggest doing a search through the yellow pages. Or there's groups like OptionLine (you can look them up online) who can help you find a pregnancy center in your area, and offer you some support over the phone. So, just FYI. In the meantime, you're in my prayers!
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How old are you and where are you from?
It's YOUR baby. They can't make you have an abortion. This is YOUR decision. Have the baby, you won't regret it. You know you won't. Sorry about your parents but do what's right for YOU.
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Do u mind me asking how old are you?...its ok to be scared I'm 22 I had my first child wen I was 20 and I'm now 30 weeks with my 2nd and half my family don't even know I'm pregnant  .i don't really know how to tell them cause they're very religious. .but believe me u better make plans starting now look for a place to live , job every thing u need to do to take care of ur bby cause that's the first question ur parents are gonna ask...When I had my first child I moved out my mom house wen my bby was a month old , she said I Could  stay as long as I wanted but I felt like it was my responsibility not hers to help me raise the bby and I been on my own ever since I work and had  my own apartment car so i never ask them for a ride any where , my parents or family couldn't say much cause I was talking care of my bby and never asked them for any thing....so start planning ur life and get ur self together before you tell them that way wen they ask all those crazy questions ull have a answer and there won't be nothing that can say or do about it just tell them it's ur responsible not there's
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U should just come out and tell them, if u really wanna have the baby don't be afraid cause am sure they love the first one.. and am sure ur not young so they could never tell u have an abortion u should start ur own family have ur own house so come on be happy and thankful.. good luck :)
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If they love you they will understand and care more about you and baby then their reputation... How old are you?
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