MY cousin just turned 16 and always asks me if I want to come over and hang out or if I wanted to to go to the movies or something similar with her. We have always been super close and are like best friends. Ever since I got pregnant I haven't wanted to go any where because I have been so tired and I can tell she is getting disappointed that I don't want to go anywhere. Also I feel bad because I don't want to go to her dad's house after her dad made me feel like I am a worthless piece of crap three years ago. I just prefer to keep my distance from my uncle when I can because it is something I will never forget even though I have since forgiven him. I just hope she doesn't feel like I am abandoning her.