I'm so mad!

[dwhites]

I asked my fiance to leave me $1 so I could get a drink and what does he do? Take all the damn money! Ugh seriously he's so selfish he couldn't leave his 8 months pregnant fiance one freaking dollar... like the things I do for him. I go out of my way to do so much for him but yet I can't even get a single dollar for a drink. Not to mention now he won't answer my text messages and I know he's purposely ignoring me (or out spending money). He's to lazy to make lunch for work so he feels the need to take all of our money to go out just because everyone else does. What he doesn't realize is none of those people have families and we can't afford to do that every day. I'm just so pissed right now no one even knows.

[annie4k]

Why don't you make lunch for him to help him get the hint that you don't want him going out. You can do it the night before and refrigerate it and surprise him in the morning. Then take all the money he would have spent on lunch for yourself, keep a dollar, and hide the test away for when one of you NEEDS it.

[Pray4me2015]

Like someone else said it's good to vent. Stress is not good for the baby. A few questions.

1. Where is your money?  Or is he the only one making money in the house?

2. If that is the case then his money is household money. Peel off some and go shopping for lunch and your bottled water. Can you make him a lunch since your not working, so he no reason to purchase lunch?

3.  Is there something else going on that causes him to ignore his future wife and unborn child? What if you were in labor?

[boytime]

It's still good to vent because if you keep it in you will explode one day...I keep everything in and it's bad when I explode...but being on this webpage makes me feel better cause I can get people's best opinions and override their criticism.. Take care and congrats by the way :)

[boytime]

Hey How do you know it's for a soft drink?? It could be for a bottle water or an ice tea or any other drink of her preference...but anyway--men can be selfish.. But as his commitment to being your fiancé and the father of your child-being 8 motnth pregnant he should be more caring for yours and the baby's needs/wants/cravings and everything else.. Maybe it was a mistake or he had to rush out and forgot .. Don't stress too much over it unless he constantly does it...But Take care keep your head up and if it's not safe for you to be with him then do what's best for you and the baby..

[QueenDonnie504]

What? He needs a spanking and you need water! No more soft drinks Missy!

[anwhatin1]

Not a very good fiancé. If he truly cares about you he would leave 7 money  and spend it. Something is wrong with this picture

[Miss_Ash88]

Not to start anything but what else is he really doing? Give him an ultimatum! If that don't work than I would do what's best for myself and my child.

[beckyyy1115]

That's so rude! I would be pissed if I were you

[Miyu19]

I'm sorry to hear that. That's awful of him. If you're both working might I suggest different bank accounts if you're sharing? You need access to your own supply of money if he behaves like that. Have you had a sit down to talk about finances?

Sorry, I'm an financial advisor so its good to talk about a plan with him so you won't be without again. What if you had an emergency and no money... That's not good