kicked out and pregent...

[suggsbaby]

i dont know what to do know ladies my ex justed kicked me out n i have no where to go and advise or helpful words?

[rachelyolanda]

My ex did that too except he chose his friend over me. So now I'm living with my mom sleeping on the floor pretty much. Guys are horrible and don't understand what we are going through. Good luck, I would start calling housing assistance and tell them your homeless. They should help you

[suggsbaby]

thanks all

[leelalauraashley]

Can you attempt to make things right with him? Every relationship has ups and downs. Sometimes you need to swallow your pride and apologize. If the situation is not safe do not return.
If that won't work you need to call family or close friends. There is someone that cares about you.

[kj_skibum]

Google Womens Crisis Pregnancy and the largest city near you. Catholic Community Services is available in most big cities and you need not be Catholic. Your best bet is to find a church based women's shelter specializing on helping pregnant women....again, you don't have to be affiliated with these churches or be a "believer"...you just have to be willing to ask for help. Note: You do not have to be a victim of physical abuse or an alcoholic/drug addict either but...should you have experienced any of thus in your past, they will also provide you with counselling etc. You will not be allowed to have alcohol/drugs at any of the shelters BTW. The shelters for preg. women near Seattle are outside the city in nice suburb areas. You typically stay through pregnancy up to 1 year of so after birth. They get you involved in counselling for past issues, provide parenting classes, help get GED or enrolled in technical school, community college etc. and provide day care while you are at school our work. You "get a life", learn to make friends etc and evrntually, are self supporting and can support your own child!

Being dependant on men to "provide for you" or the gov't to give you housing/food etc. you will remain living on the edge. Let one of these places help you stand on your own two feet and this kid will have someone to admire and aspire to be......Besides, once you get your crap together you my friend will be far more attractive to a man who has his crap together and you may be able to be in a relationship built on mutual RESPECT, Love, Admiration for one another.

Best of Luck! You can do this!

[suggsbaby]

so i have no way to work

[suggsbaby]

i dodnt even have a car

[emi236]

I known plenty of people who had to sleep in their cars until they were able to afford a place for rent. But that is a last resort if you have no faimly that might help you out right now.

[suggsbaby]

he just did it to cause we hit a hard spot in our dating i guess u can say

[suggsbaby]

oh no the babys is his

[QueenRubyRed]

Why'd he kick you out is it not his baby