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HELP!! 2 possible fathers & I'm freaking out!

So I slept witha guy on 10-3-14 which he finished in me then I got my period on 10-10-14 it was a heavy flow then I got back with my ex boyfriend & slept with him on 10-24 10-25 10-26 but we used the pull out method then I missed my period on 11-10 had a positive home test on 11-14 had a ultrasound on 12-5 that "dated the pregnancy" 6 weeks 5;days which put me 5 days over from my boyfriend & 2 weeks under from the other guy then I had 2 more ultrasounds at about 12 weeks that added up perfectly with my boyfriend I am having so much anxiety from not knowing I feel I'm going to run myself crazy I am going to try to do a DNA test before the baby is born (its safe they will just need blood samples from me & possible father) but it cost $1600 I really can't afford it but will go broke to have a piece of mind any advice will help Thanx...xoxo confused mom
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Honestly... The only way to tell would be a DNA test.
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So you were pregnant as of August 4th & still got a period on the 8 th?
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I thought i had a period which was normal as usual same amount / days long. On August 8th but it was actually implant bleeding,  all my ultrasound sounds and doctors claim go by August 4th,  so just a thought. Some woman still do have periods or normal bleeding  when pregnant
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Well they did not add the 2 weeks to my first ultrasound & if they did it still would be off I had sex exactly 6 wks ago (from 12-5) which I should of been 6 weeks at the most other guy 8-9 weeks. Now with my period it did seem a day shorter but it was not light & I got it when it was suppose to come  
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If you were 6 weeks five days at 5th december u conceived 4 weeks 5 days before..as the first two weeks dont actually count..its too late on to be the first guys really and the periods a good indicator..usually u tend to have implantation bleeding mistaken for a period..n ive always found that to be a very light/short bleed..just my take on it all though :)
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Thanks for all you guys help. & only reason why I really need to know before birth is because if its a boy it will be a Jr. Then I would have to change the baby name if its not his because it just wouldn't be right
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It's more than likely ur ex's. The six weeks includes your lmp. Is your cycle regular?
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Well i was pregnant on my last period so there's no telling. Because that's what confused me & my husband. But the next month i didn't have one & i was a month & half on my ultrasound. So i could be the one you had a period with but honestly nobody knows because everyone is different, you'll just have to wait & enjoy your baby
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Well i was pregnant on my last period so there's no telling. Because that's what confused me & my husband. But the next month i didn't have one & i was a month & half on my ultrasound. So i could be the one you had a period with but honestly nobody knows because everyone is different, you'll just have to wait & enjoy your baby
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The only way to be sure is to take a paternity test
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If you had sex with one guy then had your period more than likely it's not his.

Then you had sex with ex and haven't had your period since. and the dates are lining up with when you had sex with him. I would say it's your exs.
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You might want to call and ask the nurses at the Dr's office how they predict your weeks of pregnancy I think that will help ease some  of your anxiety. No need to rush to a pre blood test, if you're still not sure test when the baby gets here and just enjoy your pregnancy. Best of luck!
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They go by the first day of your last period. Im 21 weeks by Dr's  reports but really only 19 weeks from my actual date of conceiving.
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