listening vent

[kennimae]

I get so frustrated because when I tell my husband something he doesn't freaking listen to me. A week or so after telling him something he is like oh well you never told ne that. Well if you would put down your damn phone or whatever your doing maybe you would know because your actively listening to me and not actually acting like you are. Sometimes I just want to throw his dang phone out the door maybe then he would listen when I try to tell him stuff.

[xolexixo]

Haha yes!!!! Or when it's actually serious or important like the talks about your relationship and then there just like o wait what did you say.. Men are rediculous lol

[halerz90]

My husband is like that with watching TV. Sometimes I just wanna throw something at the tv & break it. He'd listen then! Haha

[darthmander]

We should create a club for them ladies. My husband wanted to go hang out with someone for the 5th day in a row and I asked him to stay home and he didn't. I got upset later that night we started fighting and I told him he should have stayed home and he was like you never asked me to. I'm like seriously? Wtf? Have you been dropped on your head or something. Like his memory got worse than mine.

[Batmama]

But we still having listening problems lmao

[Batmama]

Me and my hubby don't sit on the phone. If someone text him or someone text me, we tell each other who it is and what's it about without pressuring the issue or making it a problem, its called respect.

[kennimae]

It is because I know the same thing happens with my parents too.

[Beedannyy]

Thats my hubby too but he dont hav a phone hes jus a guy i guess...it makes me upset too...but thats a man for u (:

[flakin]

My advice, or what worked for me! Give it right back! Sit on the couch, away from him, act how he acts. If he ask you to fix his drink, no ma'am. Do EVERYTHING he is doing. It will take a few days but , do it!

[kennimae]

Haha yeah. And when we do talk things are awesome but its the stuff during the day that's annoying. Its not even all the time but when it does happen it annoys the **** out of me! Ugh men sometimes

[Lilseamonkey]

Lol @ kennimae that's because we run the world. If we didn't listen or whisper out opinions in their ears the world would be chaos. Anyways, if I were you I would take his phone away when you need to speak to him. He's your husband and marriage is based on communication. If you can't talk to him you'll be unhappy and it might fail. Just take the distraction away. What's the worst that could happen? Hell throw a fit like a 2yr old? Lol

[kennimae]

Pretty much but when we don't listen all heck breaks lose.

[amabdadoyle1322]

My fiance never knows what's going on and I always update him on everything.lol men! Ridiculous!