living sitch.

[NewMommyFeb15]

So I live with my aunt. My bf lives 45 min away and we want to find somewhere in between here and there. My aunt just found out I'm pregnant and doesn't want nee to live with him. Says I already have up sex, I don't need to live with him too. but I told her- we can be closer and he can be more involved if we live together. He wants to be involved, and we want to get married after the baby's born... how should I convince her nicely to live with him- I mean he IS the baby's father after all, and I love him.

[Sexci_Black11]

THATS HOW OLD FASHION PARENTS ARE IF U DONT MARRY FIRST U CANT LIVE WITH THE GUY THATS PROBABLY WHAT SHE WANT YA TO DO TO GET MARRIED FIRST !!!! BUT GIRL ITS UP TO U.....U GOTTA MAKE YOUR DECISION FOR YOURSELF CUZ AT THE END OF THE DAY ITS U WHO GOTTA STAY AND DEAL WITH THE GUY JUST TRY TO TALK TO HER AND CONVINCE HER

[KyandKay]

Well you made it seem that either way you guys will be married. Well just tell her that you think it's best and to at least let you see for yourself what's best. It's good to have him involved and that living together is easier.

[FirstTimeMommy89]

If your both in love by now or before pregnancy I don't see why you wouldn't get married now

[FirstTimeMommy89]

Yea maybe that's what she's thinking lol ppl that are older are more old fashioned and she probably just wants you guys to make that step first before anything else

[NewMommyFeb15]

Well we want to adjust to the baby first then get married, we both kinda agreed that would be good- so that way we aren't getting married just bc of the baby. My parents got married bc they were pregnant with me and they divorced after 2 years...

[KyandKay]

I mean you're old enough to make your own decisions but she may be supportive if y'all marry first

[KyandKay]

Maybe if you get married first and then move in with him

[NewMommyFeb15]

20- he's 22

[KyandKay]

How old are you?