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need advice, i went through my husbands phone!
So like it says i went through his phone, i couldn't find nothing but its like he purposely left his phone for me to go through. So my husband and i drove to sheetz to get a 2 liter. We are pulling up to park, he starts freaking out because he left his phone at home and $20. So we go up to our apartment he grabs his phone and money goes to the room. My 15 year old stats whispering to me, i went through his phone and he was texting some girl and on meetme.com in the past hour. He said got evidence i took screen shots and made sure he doesn't know i was on his phone. So when my husband goes to sleep he's going to get his phone!
I'm not even upset, every time he gets a phone he does this!!!! What should i do ladies??? I'm thinking of taking screen shots ofhis messages sending them to my phone then send them to his mom and friends so they will know what a scum bag he is and actually believe me, they always think I'm lieing!
I'm not even upset, every time he gets a phone he does this!!!! What should i do ladies??? I'm thinking of taking screen shots ofhis messages sending them to my phone then send them to his mom and friends so they will know what a scum bag he is and actually believe me, they always think I'm lieing!
Ill call and ask tomorrow, thanks.
you can go to your health department and ask about free apartments, i believe they do that alot of places..(they will find you a free apartment/ room to stay until you get on your feet) i think they also have free daycare threw the goverment employees, but you definatly dont have to be with him you can do much better put him on child support and try to get a job in the mean time
why are you still with him if he keeps doing this ??(im guessing hes done it before because you said "they never believe me" ) you dont deserve that
I'm going to put it back, if he asks idk what happened lol ill tell him maybe your friend called and tried to turn it off.
We were arguing earlier today an i text our friend an til him to turn it off and he said he would but its not of yet!
We were arguing earlier today an i text our friend an til him to turn it off and he said he would but its not of yet!
That's hard to get out of... my brothers phone has reset itself but its a rooted droid bionic and the root went wrong after about a month. But id say it did it by itself lol
Well ladies my brother an i totally messed up and ended up erasing /resetting his phone -.- when he wakes up, its gonna be a huge arguement!!!
You can hack into his email if you know his security questions usually guys make their security questions really easy then you can hack into his Facebook.. I did this with my boy friend a couple weeks ago ... Avd I got into it on my own phone as long as you know his email address .
If you know his email password you can also get into it if you mess up so many times. Or that's how androids are idk what kind of phone he has.
I got his phone bbut it now has a lock I'm trying to get it unlocked..
This story reminds me so much of me and my boyfriend, I'm 20w2d and my boyfriend has signed up for about 5 dateing websites and he always deletes his history on his phone! I know exactly how you feel.. It's pretty bad I'm actually used to itz
Medicaid does offer assisted living if that's what you want to do. But you've given in to him so much its time for you to stand up for yourself about his cheating and for not being a good father to your daughter she needs you to stand up for her too. Let him know that what he's doing is 100% not ok and that you wont put up with it. Unless your wanting to stay there then let him hang himself in the mess he's made while you save money.
Virginia premier, through Medicaid.
This is hard for me because i don't usually stand up for myself!
This is hard for me because i don't usually stand up for myself!
If your wanting to move on from him id recommend making friends so you have an at home support system your gonna need one to help with emotiins, if you can stand being at home with him stay there and save money if you can't look for a shelter or call a pregnancy center some of them can help with assisted living. What insurance do you have? Cuz some of them also offer assisted living.
Don't flip or fold.... gather your info...give him rope and let him hang himself. Gather ammunition. Play smarter not harder. Stay strong to keep yourself afloat.
....idk what to do?!
Maybe its best if you hold off on telling ppl for a while. Until your a little more emotionally ready to take on what they may say. Or if they are gonna talk down to you don't tell them. Try finding a support group through fb or in your area so that you can talk about it to ppl that won't talk down or be ignorant like that.
I don't even want to talk to my mom cause i know she say "see i was right, you shouldn't have married him" ugh!!!! :,(
He wont get your babies they are yours he hasnt proved himself as any kind of father or husband they wouldn't give a child to a unfit parent especially young babies. Your in a tough spot but everything will be ok your a tough momma and will do right by your babies. It'll just be hard for a while but all 3 of you will get through it.
Now the tears are coming, I'm definitely see about getting a therapist Monday!
No but he threatens me with our kids saying he'll take me to court for custody! I've taken care of her 24/7 since she was born not him all he's ever did is run off away from us so he doesn't have to help! He doesn't care about our daughter and that breaks my heart, she such a sweetheart how can he do this to her!
If you can stand being there with him til you can move and be safe there then you can do that. Would he try anything if you went to the shelter? If your worried you can get an order of protection and move. Also id ask your doctor if there's a pregnancy group in your area that gets together so you can make some friends and have ppl with you for more support.
Just give him his.rope to hang himself for the time being. I would make his ***.leave if he's doing dirt. But until then if u have nowhere to go then do what you have to do to prepare yourself to go on your own. Don't let yourself become dependant on a man because he.doesn't want u to further yourself. That's a form of control...
How do i upload pictures ladies ill post the screen shots
There's a women's shelter here but he knows where it is cause his sister stayed their before!
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