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Sad day..

So today me and my baby's father broke up i know it's for the best because he's not even there for me and his whole world revolves around smoking weed and hanging around with his friends. I still cant help feeling really sad and heartbroken he choose that life then me and the baby. Can the baby feel everything i can? I mean i dont want it to hurt the baby my family tells me not to let it get to me cause the baby can feel all of my emotions and its not good for him or her .. can the baby feel my emotions?
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Yeah i honestly feel more stressed when hes around it ***** cause i feel like i have to compete against one of his friends and nah i got tired of coming 3rd in his life i guess it is for the best now i have to focus on my baby tomorrow i actually get told the sex of my bundle of joy so atlease that gets me a little happy :)
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Mine runs around and is never here either even "he loves me so much bluh bluh" but he drinks, rides his new motorbike and makes out with his boyfriend (not literally but he spends all his time with some guy).. it's good and bad because I could really use his help and love but he treats me like shhh it. I'm not sure if I'm more stressed with him here or gone..  
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This should be a happy day for you. Did you really want someone like him around your child? Trust me this is going to save you a ton of stress. Fukc him.
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It is possible to negatively effect the baby with your emotions. I know it is hard, I have been there and I'm there again. It is easier said than done but try to focus on you and the baby. Feeling a certain way will not make him come back to you or change. I believe prayer changes things and God can and will change your circumstances for the better. It may not be what you expect but trust it is for your good. Hope this helps.  
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Yes.. I know it's easier said then done but try to stay calm for your little one
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