overreacting to my bf spreading the news?

[katie_1989]

So im just sbout six weeks and my boyfriend and i decided not to tell anyone until at least my first ultrasound.  It has been difficult holding the exciting news in but its also nice to have a secret of our own. I was on my boyfriends phone the other day (n no we dont have boundaries or no snooping rules) when a msg popped up from his brother. I opened the text n the two msgs before that were from my bf to his bro telling him about me being pregnant and telling him to keep it a secret.  I was and am very upset. I haven't mentioned this to my bf bc i know it will start a fight but he is lying right to my face when i ask him if its still our secret. It kinda hurts.. any suggestions on what to do?

[katie_1989]

I guess.. i haven't told anyone and i dont want to until we bith decide.. guess they r close n he is probably nervous and excited.. ill definitely mention it to him

[fvcatlin]

ITS OK MY HUSBAND DID THE SAME. They just have a close bond.

[lilpianogirl85]

IMHO I think you might be overreacting a little bit. I definitely understand wanting to keep it a secret and it definitely is a problem if he is lying to you. But he is just excited and it is his brother. You haven't told your mom or sister or best girlfriend? Even if you have kept it a complete secret from everyone except your bf the relationship he had with his brother could be a deep one. Just be straight with him, don't play games. Sit him down and say you saw the text and it hurt your feelings that you told your brother and then move on.