You never really know until you have your own. Thats because most of what they know doesn't come from experience. Its different when you have your own children because you're responsible for EVERYTHING that they do.
Lol I know exactly how you feel, my bff I love her to death she is the god mom of both my children but she keeps wanting to go out of town & do trips but when you have children other things are first priorities, she just says all come on if you put $50 every check you should be able to go & I keep having to tell her when you have 2 kids $50 could be used for other stuff instead! ugh....
Lol right thats what im saying this is my second child and people expect you to do things they do