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[Octoberbaby4]

I HAVE A question... My baby girl is coming soon an me an the bd don't live together an my mom trys to control everything saying he can't stay the night he can only visit his child when its my grandmas house I believe this is wrong a father should be able to spend a night with his baby right!?,stressed!

[caligal_14]

What are ur plans are u trying to move in with ur b.f??like my dad would always say u dont likey the rules ur 18 now u know what to do ...i mean u are 19 u are having a baby ur starting ur own family ...its a life changing ur new journey.,. bby girl u will have tough moments put u cant forever depent on ur parents u will eventually need to start ur own life...i started from nothing to owning my own car i had my dark tuff moments with 3kids and single u can do it to...GOOD LUCK HUN...

[hellojojo2200]

That is lame tho..im sorry u have 2 deal with that. It must b hard
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[hellojojo2200]

Um Sorry..unfortunately if u live in their house they get 2 decide the rulez..u and ur bf shus work on moving in 2 gether..or u work on.moving oout...

[ewilliams_]

I am currently going through the same thing. My mom won't let my bd spend the night. Which I am perfectly okay with. But she won't even let us spend the night over there with him. I'll be 19 in Dec so ik the feeling of a controlling mom

[Octoberbaby4]

Yes i agree with y'all both a 100% i wanna move out so bad I can't handle her trying to control every move just because she doesn't like him. I feel like its childish i just cant wait to get a job after pregnancy so i can move out.

[Nisha_Rachel]

My mom's trying to do the same thing with me. She hates my fiancee but he and I are going through a rough patch so I moved back in with her. She tries to tell me that he isn't welcome here and I'm not allowed to go there. And I just looked at her like dude I'm 23, not 10. But it nevertheless is her house. I'd say save up your money and move out.

[iLovekjoy2]

When I got pregnant with my first daughter my mom was the same way. She didn't even want me going to see my bf. I got tired of that mess so I got an apt and moved out. Maybe you could go and stay with him at his house!

[Octoberbaby4]

Yes thank u i couldnt agree more its just hard right now he just got a job and i cant work yet BT I plan on it after the baby is born its just too much for me i want my baby me an the father to be together :( and @tonos_mommy your right but i feel like she listens to my mom about everything and its crazy!,

[bubzbeauty29]

Just move in with him

[bubzbeauty29]

Sorry but if he's not paying bills or rent your mom is right...i'm 19 too and my babydaddy will not be staying the night with me n the baby because is my parents house...he will only visit. I respect that because it's my parents house

[jmstb]

I have the same issue but my mom would let him spend the night at first but now says he can't. She wants us to get married and all this other stuff. Like she just wants to control my relationship with the bd. Ithink it is wrong but then again i am living under her roof and not paying since I haven't started working yet. But if you pay rent and everything you should be able to say something. Honestly I think you should just move in together with the bd as soon as you guys can so you guys have your own life together and not have someone telling you how it should be .

[Tonos_Mommy]

That's messed up but you unfortunately have to abide unless you're grandma says otherwise. I'm sorry you have to deal with this

[Octoberbaby4]

19

[hellojojo2200]

How old r u?