stop mom.

[alexisandbentley]

Okay. So im 15, yes. Young for a child but my mom is trying to take over like she owns my child. And it makes me mad. Even my doctor has had to tell her to back off because she thinks she can do what ever she wants. And thinks she knows me better then I do. The doctors wont even let her come in the room with me because she answers everything and half of it is wrong -.- what do I do. She wont stop. So then she makes me move in with my aunt. Her husband, and 3 KIDS. I love them and all. But she wants me to stay with them for the first 6 months so she can be by herself , and I plan on breastfeeding, and my aunt has her kids in all the rooms , so I have the living room. And she has 2 boys.. does anyone evever think! Seriosuly its getting on my nerves -.- I cant do it. Any advice.?

[mrs_farris]

You don't have much of a choice unless you want to emancipate yourself and get a place of your own. Living at home or with your aunt,  you have to live by their rules and in the place that they allow you to. Your a pregnant teenager who depends on others for a place to live, you have no say.

[MommyMakwa00]

Well girl then your mom is on a control rampage, at first I wasn't seeing your angle but if you can handle 3 kids and your aunt recognizes that then you must have a good grip on your pregnancy and what's in store. Just prove to your mom that you got this handled and she should back off hopefully, don't let it stress or bring you down.

[alexisandbentley]

No its not that im not getting what I want, its like.. she doesnt trust me to take care of a child. Even though ive been there to take careof all 3 of my aunts kids. And the youngest is 2 and she loves to hit people when they dont respond to her the way she wants , and when there neighbors come over and there baby crys she trys to hit him. Ad I dont want her hitting my son. I love my aunt. She actually treats me like an adult , because its not like I just act like a child, shes taught me how to raise kids, and shes taught me to do stuff with babies because of when she had her kids. I love being here. But she just has too many kids. I have no privacy.  And ill be stuck breastfeeding and sleeping with a babyIin the living room.

[MommyMakwa00]

Your aunts roof** god I worded that so poorly lol sorry.

[MommyMakwa00]

Probably not going to get the freedom or what you want since I'm betting your under her roof right. Just have to deal hun, it's part of being a teenager, just because you got pregnant doesn't change the fact that she's your mom and that your still a teen. Just being honest, not hating kiddo :) best wishes that she calms down to be more of a help then a hassle but it doesn't always work like that.

[ladyy_cece20]

You need to sit down with your mom and have a talk with her. Try asking her Can you move back in with her cause it's to pack at your aunt house