trouble in paradise

[weldermom]

just not feeling the sex thing i love my bf to death but sex is just not on my mind and hasn't been since having my first boy hes now 1, i been having to force myself to do the deed i think i may have a little resentment i dont know if its tward him or just something from my pass that he has woken up inside me as aways we started out good we was sexing every day but when it got closer to the time i got pregnant the sex every day started wearing on me and i wanted a break hear and there which was a problem for him i couldn't have not one day without him getting pissy and completely ignoring everything else that was done around the house we talked i took his control of when we have sex he didnt like that either but we talked agin and he has stopped pouting around the house if we dont have sex just making it less obvious and not being so pushy about sex which is great but i just cant get my drive back so im still forcing myself to do the deed ive been researching and tryin to find something to help me because this isnt going to work like this i cant just not have sex with him and want to its just my body is like eww i even tried watching porn to get ready nope nothing i just feel so bad for him and ive just been thinking about leaving because he needs someone who can keep up with his demands and taste im just not it anymore or could it just be the harmones messing with my head to leave him

[weldermom]

yeah we had that talk about nothing being wrong with him and that its just my body but that convo didnt sink in still till this day im pregnant with number two and he acts as if its my fault i feel like crap and im just supposed to continue my everyday life hell my couponing has come to a complete hault because i just cant deal with it all and his philosophy is "ppl have to do things they dont want to do sometimes" it is true to an extent lol like i wanna feel like crap lol i so wish i could trade places with him let him be the judge  

[siloe713]

It really is your hormones changing your drive. When it happened to me I had to sit down with my husband and explain that so that he wouldn't take it personally. It can make a man feel unattractive which could be why he's sulking more.
We started doing other things that both of us could enjoy, we take showers together and when my husband knows I'm not going to be into it we'll just do hand jobs and he'll give me a little massage. Increasing foreplay helped a lot as well. You'll have to find something that works for you both, it's an adjustment.