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9771234 tn?1405793808

ugh feeling sad and hurt :(

Ever since my hubby has came back from training he's been so mean to me instead of staying home and spending time with me he rather spend time with his friends. And I told him once again put ur friends before me and his response was like I haven't sacrifice enough already for ur ungrateful *** I'm so hurt and sad
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9771234 tn?1405793808
I know it's not good for the baby and I try to be understandings this is why I don't say anything back to him just cry and he deploys 3 months after the baby is born not use to this military life
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As long as he giving u attention and affection most the time it should be fine with him hanging out with his friends but if he's spending more time with them its not right
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I was married to a marine. I hate how my brother and him came out of training. If he is hanging out with younger marines don't be surprised I feel from my experience a lot these guys tend to drink and hang out a lot. It's like a club and they forget about reality.  It's tough being a marine and having a family. My sister and brother-in-law almost divorced over this because he picked his buds over her. They just learn to pick the Marines.
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That's a marine for ya. Ive lived with one for four yrs I've gotten use to it. He told me today he's going to Boston 6 days after my due date. Smh
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Lena I sent you a message
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Talking*......training*
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Try taking to someone who has been through that type of trying. There is more then you would understand about it. And if he deploys, then you will need to be much more understanding when he returns. Because it's hard for the spouses as it is harder for the military person.
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Well it may be the training but it may be he is scared ur as far along as I am yay us! Just make sure he's not making u feel unwanted as soon as that happins I need to have a serious talk and see what would be the best course of action Jes doesn't need to be stressing u out like this in a time like this its not good for the baby or u
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9771234 tn?1405793808
Well I'm only 18 weeks pregnant and he's been gone through most of it he seems excited but just says mean things to me idk if its from all the training he does but he gets angry for any lil thing
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PS feel free to message me if u need to vent men can get mean when were pregnant they think were making **** up or being baby's when we're creating a new life! And that's no cake walk
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Any Jes scared he's loseing his freedom. Guys have emotions too there just stupid and don't express them in a way that anyone but a guy would get. How has he been tword the baby? If he gets really mean girlu do what I need to for u and that amazing Lil life ur going to soon get to love with or without his help
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I've been feeling like my husband has been pushing me off for his friends lately to! :( I'm sorry girl!! Such an ugly lonely feeling & it *****!!
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9771234 tn?1405793808
Marines
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I'm so sorry. Is he in the army?
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