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Ok so im 19 weeks nd i rarley have the urge to have sexx my fiance. Is really starting to feel some type of way because i dont get horney or in the mood is their any thing i can do to boost my sex drive or sumthingeni can do to get ne in the mood
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Im havein boy n its no sex. I jus dnt be in the mood
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Im havein boy n its no sex. I jus dnt be in the mood
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Hormones are crazy, are they not? I wish I had a magic way to turn back on the sex drive, but after ten weeks I still have not had any desire to have sex whatsoever. I can't even play pretend, haha! My husband has been very understanding. Explain how you're feeling to your boyfriend, you don't need any pressure to do anything you don't want to, you have a lot going on! If he is struggling let him have some quality "me time". Words go a long way.
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It doesn't really depend on baby I'm having a boy and I don't get horny what's so ever I feel bad for my baby's father cause he feels like I don't love him or don't want to be with him. Its just all in your hormones. Still to this day I don't get in the mood and I'm 36 weeks
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I was like that until now that I'm 33 weeks, now if my husband falls sleep I really don't mind. I never thought I would be like that but I am. But when he wants it, I don't say no. I don't feel good at all about myself, my body right now, but they have needs and urges as well. It might sound bad but I usually get him super ready by doing other stuff and then finish it with actual intercourse, then it's sleep time. I think I wouldn't enjoy long intercourse right now, it's kind of uncomfortable sometimes. I wish I could give you some advice, oh well, what gets me in the mood is going down on him, I guess hearing him enjoying it so much turns me on enough to lead to at least 5 minutes of intercourse which is only how long I can take because I don't feel sexy at all or with the energy to go longer. Haha. Good luck!
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27+6weeks and I'm pregnant with a girl. Can't get enough of my bf. He can hardly sleep.
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I'm having a boy and my sex drive is at a crawl. :( we still have sex just not nearly as often as before, but I try to be undestanding and, ahem, "compensate" in other ways, just as he is understanding and let's me be with some cuddle time.
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Careful what you wish for lol I tell my boyfriend that I have an "FFS Policy" which means "Feed me, **** me, and let me Sleep" lmao. I'm always horny, and actually put on pelvic rest for a week from bleeding not related to serial intercourse. Work week ever! My boyfriend can't keep up! Lol
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I'm 23 weeks and I'm having a girl! Ftm and I can't get enough sex ! I only get to see my husband on the weekends because of his Army training and its just not enough! It really blows!
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I heard if you're having a boy your sex drive is higher because of the testosterone and its lower with girls from the estrogen. Not sure if its true do you ladies know what you're having yet?
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I'm always hornyy. It *****  
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I'm the same way and I'm 21 weeks. It just comes and goes you just have to make him understand
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