ungrateful?

[melcarin]

How is it ungrateful if I don't like what my mom buys me? Just because I don't like something doesn't mean I'm ungrateful. Those of you that said I was bitching or ungrateful don't know me or the relationship I have with my mom. Just so you know my mom has done more for me than any of you could ever know. First off she adopted me as a baby and has taken care of me and three other adopted children that have since pretty serious health issues. Secondly my mom has supported my choice with this pregnancy and what I've bought or asked for. Third my mom doesn't care if I dislike something she brings me things knowing I might not like them. Fourth she has been working her *** off to help me be able to provide clothes and other items for my unborn daughter and I am extremely grateful for that. So next time you decide I'm bitching or ungrateful maybe you should ask what my situation is and how my relationship with my parents is instead of just assuming things

[melcarin]

Yeah I would too. And like I said it's not the amount she spends because most everything we find is from our work and we take it home try it out and bring it back. We don't pay for the clothes

[Katiej18]

If I bought someone a gift I'd rather know if they didn't like it so they can exchange it for Someyjin they do like

[melcarin]

Yeah I understand that. But just because they have a situation that isn't ideal doesn't mean mine is and its not a reason to make assumptions and be rude calling people ungrateful and what not. I mean I could say plenty of people are ungrateful for what they have but I keep those comments to myself

[melcarin]

I have a lot of clothes and she thinks I don't have enough so anytime I take stuff and donate it she says I'm gonna need the items when I haven't worn them yet and won't ever.

[mommy147]

Hmm okay I just feel like some women on here just wished their moms were involved like how your mom is and to see you "complain" in their opinion, just really ticks them off. We're pregnant and hormonal lol .

[melcarin]

And it's not about money. The majority of what we get come from the thrift store we work at for free anything we actually buy we get a receipt and then exchange it

[melcarin]

She gets mad because of how much I take not that I take it

[dollface7]

Well if you bought things for someone and spent quite a bit of time and money on it and they said they didn't like the things and just have them away wouldn't you be mad?
I would be upset too if i were your mom so yeah i can see how people would say that.

[mommy147]

You said in your previous post that she gets mad when you don't like it and take it to the thrift store so now how are you saying she doesn't care if you don't like it ? I don't understand. I'm just trying to understand not start anything. (:

[randomperson94]

To each her own opinion :-)