17 and pregnant

[hope_brown17]

Hey,
I'm 17 and pregnant I wasn't expecting this as I always use contraception but i guess nothing is 100% safe. I don't know if I'm happy or sad but I'm extremely scared. I don't know if I should keep it or have an abortion. I would like opinions on if I did keep it how would I manage with money and what do I need to do to make a good life for my baby. I'm currently 6 weeks pregnant. Thank you

[Candace2016]

I was 16 when I got pregnant with my son and 17 when I had him just to turn around and have my daughter 14 months and 2 days later. It was hard,really hard. There were a lot of days I was so tired and sore I didn't want to go to school. I was lucky enough to have a school in my city that helped pregnant girls who were in school. They taught us everything about being pregnant, giving birth and what to expect after birth. They even had an on campus daycare. I wasn't going down the right path before I got pregnant and didn't care about graduating or anything. I can honestly say if it weren't for getting pregnant with my son and having him I wouldn't have graduated from school on time and got my life together before I messed it up. He saved me in so many ways but support at your age is extremely
extremely vital. Good luck with your decision.

[kayturner77]

My advise to support yourself and your baby is to stay in school, graduate if you can. Nannying is a great way to make money if you have any experience with kids plus it's good practice. I nanny through care.com and make 100 a day. Babies don't cost too much if you know what you really need. There are a lot of good articles which can tell you that on the internet. I can't testify as a mother since I don't have any children yet but I've never heard a good mother regret her child and since you obviously care about your baby that's all you need.

[2gs_2bs_andcounting]

Please don't abort. Listen to these encouraging stories from these strong women. God blessed you with an amazing gift. There will be struggles, ups and downs, but be strong, you can make it. There is no better feeling in the world as when you first look at your baby. Children make life worth living

[angelia2898]

Good luck to you on what decision you choose. Take your time to think and do research, and make sure it's completely your choice & don't let ANYONE'S opinion or feelings impact your choice! ❤❤❤

[angelia2898]

I'm 17, and I'm currently 6 months with my first child. When I first found out that I was pregnant, I was numb to the feeling of bringing a child into the world. I was scared of how my family would react. I was so scared and numb that I considered abortion, even though that wasn't what I wanted to do. I became strong within a couple of weeks after I found out that I was carrying my first child and I just stood strong and told my dad. It wasn't as bad as I expected, his reaction was fair, his main focus was that I finish school. My baby boy and I have come a long way with 15 more weeks to go! It hasn't been the easiest journey, but I enjoy every minute of it! From the emotional mood swings, increased sensitivity, changing body, random hunger strikes, gas, discharge, exhaustion, back pain, being short of breath, leg cramps, not being able to fit so many of my old clothes, saving money(soo wasn't used to that, money used to burn a hole in my pocket, spent!) and round ligament pains I know it will all be worth it! I have about 3 months to go and I've faced my challenges head on!

[OkieMamaOf3]

I had my son at 18 and got pregnant at 17. It was the best thing I ever did. My son is now 4 and he has a little brother that's almost 3 and we have baby #3 on the way. It's tough, but it's so rewarding and you would never regret if. ❤️

[hansen20]

I was 16 when I got pregnant. I had my son a month in a half after my 17th bday. I was a little scared to.  I thought about adoption but I felt I could not do it.. and I don't think I thought about abortion really because I asked a lady who had 1 and she said that she felt guilty for jt and she regretted it her whole life and to this day she still does. My mom was supported me in any choice I made. She said that she could help me out until I had some type of income.  So I had a lot of support of family and friends. so that played a role in my choice too. I decided to keep my son.  He will be turning 8 November 15th. After my son was born I went to school he was at a baby sister that was my friend, came home and picked up my son and we would have gone to the park or a friends house and spend time with them . I didn't go to college because I never wanted to anyways even before I got pregnant.  There's a lot of responsibility it makes a person grow up fast.

[valcvz]

I got pregnant at 15, had my first son at 16. Now I'm 19 about to have my second child, of course having a baby young will be a struggle but with love and supporting people around you, you'll be fine! A baby is the greatest blessing you can ever recieve. My mom was my backbone and also the father of my son was in my life helping and supporting, now we're married and everything worked out great. We have our own home and everything. Thing very hard before getting an abortion because some women say it's their biggest regret in life. Everything happens for a reason. Good luck!

[kaylalove831]

I'm 18 years old and I was on the sane boat until so many people support me without the decision. If your not ready that's your choice don't let anyone force you.

[jesiewatson]

It's ok to be scared. I was 17 when I had my son who is now 6 :) he is the best thing that ever happened to me. As far as making a good life for your baby, you have to understand that that child is going to solely depend on you and need you. Days of partying or doing whatever you want won't happen with a baby. I was lucky because I never did any of that stuff so didn't phase me but I knew people that did and it was hard for them to adjust and they resented being a parent. All you can do is try. Being a parent is terrific and terrifying at the same time. If you're too afraid to be a parent then try adoption :) there are a lot of parents desperately wanting a child (we have been trying for 5 years to have another just to find out my odds of pregnancy are slim to none:( sometimes if your are worried about being a parent remember you have the ability to bless another couple who don't have that ability.

People will judge and sometimes it ***** but what is important is that YOU and the father are happy with whatever decision you make