Telling My Parents

[vettaxo]

I'm 17 , a senior in high school.  And I'm pregnant. I've finally told my mom. Telling my dad will be the hardest part. Can I get some advice or encouragment I'm very scared and nervous.  

[boodiemommy]

first Congrats i Just graduated high school last year I was 18 when i found out , I first told my mother it took me some time to tell my father but it all worked out for the best ! hopefully all goes well with you too

[juno92]

I was 21 when I had my first. Even though I had moved out when I was 19 and even moves yo a different state, supporting myself, it was difficult to tell my dad. My boyfriend and I were together for 2 and a half years but we weren't married yet and my parents frowned upon the fact that we lived together without being married.( they're religious ) so when the time came to tell my parents ( even though I was independent ) it was still scary. My husband( bf at that time) ended up sitting my dad down and I took my mom in another room and told her. They were upset at first and even left their own house for a little while with us there and my mom cried outside. They weren't happy I was having a baby out of wedlock. But honestly even though they were initially upset, they took care of me through my morning sickness while my husband worked and my dad would cook me whatever I craved. No matter what their initial reaction is they are gonna love you baby. It might take a little while but your dad will come around. If not now then definitely when he sees his grand baby for the first time. Good luck. You can do this.

[specialmom]

I think something that helps is to have some type of plan worked out when you share the news.  Like how you are going to finish school, then after high school ----  getting higher education (ether college, trade school, job training), how you'll care for the baby, etc.  If a parent things you know the reality of the situation and that there is much to plan for and contemplate and that you aren't just going to be a baby mommy and have plans for your future still, they take the news better.  Your life just got a bit harder and a bit fuller.  Plenty of girls do it though and all is well.  so, if you speak to him in terms of you knowing what you knowing what you are up against, that really helps.  goo dluck

[Julianne88]

I got pregnant at 18 and it was hard to tell my parents, especially my dad. You're family will always love you. They may be shocked at first but that child is a blessing and they will love being a grandparent. You're his little girl so I'm sure he will react shocked. Just tell him now while it's early . It'll show u wanted him to know. Gonna find out anyways. Better to have their support

[penguing1227]

Im 21 and married but my mum hates my husband. Her and I got into a fight when we got married etc..  so I was really nervous about telling her. She was the last person we told but babies change things. When I told her she was actually happy. Not overly excited or anything but just happy. Now 2 wks later she is excited and keeps checking on me to see how im feeling and how much thw baby is moving. You can do it! It might be scary but he might be really excited. Just remember go in expecting the worst but hope for the best he might be mad at first but I'm sure he will warm up

[rachaelbutsch]

I'm 20 I was 20 when I got pregnant I'll be 21 in Dec any who I am married and live on my own but telling my father was horrifying cause it was like in a way I had to finally admit to him I was no longer a virgin even tho he knew for years we always avoided that topic. I told my dad through a text and when he didn't text back I freaked and asked if he was mad he said no I'm not mad just upset I asked why he said cause he was to young to be a grandfather... lol but he's over it now and gets all excited when he buys he grand daughter stuff lol it will be okay he will live you no matter what

[Elouisejayde]

Me and my boyfriend of 3 years are both 23. I was super scared to tell my dad, just because he can be a bit strict,  I know he only wants the best for me though. I got the courage up, invited him round for dinner when I was 7 weeks pregnant and told him, he said he already had a suspicion,  but was over the moon and said he was ready to be a grandfather... he has been super supportive, along with the rest of my family... the worst thing you can do is hide it from him, he's your father, he will always love you, regardless :)

[Young_Mommy_To_Be16]

I was 16 when J got pregnant and had my daughter while I was still 16 but 11 days after I had her I turned 17. My mom was the one I told first. We were both scared of my dads reaction. So we both told him together. I cried my eyes out. He was upset and told me he would support and decision I made but he soon got over it and realized he was going to have a grand daughter and was happy about it. He loves her now and can't get over how adorable she is. In my opinion, I think you and your mom should tell him together.

[MrsCalderon]

Omg same here, my dad keeps asking my mom but she tells him "idk" because we're both scared lol. And my boyfriend freaks out too, idk when I'm going to tell him just because I'm scared of his reaction. My sister had a baby when she was 17 and didn't finish school & he didn't talk to her for awhile. By the time I have my baby I'll be 18 & almost done with high school.

[swlucille]

I graduated prego , in june i told my dad and he was really mad but i told him about my goals & that i still planned to do everything i was going to do before i got pregnant. . He got over it and is excited now . Goodluck! :)

[Lynnj92]

The first person I've told was my dad but im 22 recently moved out of my parents house last year and moved away for school and ive gotten pregnant with my bf for 5 years he told me whatever I plan he'll will always be there for me no matter what but growing up I was closed to my dad that's why I can tell him anything just tell your dad yourself he'd want you to tell him im sure he'll be happy for you! Having a grandchild is such a big blessing dont worry girl! You'll be fine let him know!