Wow.. (RANT)

[DuanesWife0214]

I have never felt so little as he has made me feel tonight. Im a teen mom, in high school. I talked to my mom about getting home schooled. The 3 stories everyday is making my horrible hips in more pain and i am just too exhausted for the time i have to wake up. I dont want to give up completely for my dad. My dads last wish was for me to finish school. I want to make it a bit easier on me. My mom is fine with. As for my husband he totally destroyed the faith o had in myself to do it. He told me i was stupid for deciding to get homeschooled and that i was going to fail. When i asked him if he atleast believed i could do it he said no. That he didn't believe in me and i was too lazy to even go to school. I just have been crying for hours.. with him next to me and he told me to stop crying in his ear and told me not to tpuch him. He wont even talk it out with me... i just feel so stupid for even trying..sorry its so long...

[RockRose]

You're almost at the end of the school year - you're not thinking of quitting right now,  are you?  I don't know when your school year ends,  but if you can make it through finals and pass all your classes (are you a sophomore?) you'll be so much further ahead than if you quit now.

Since you are struggling with energy level and are exhausted all the time,  it does seem a little unlikely right now you will have the energy and stamina and discipline to stick with home schooling.  

As I see it,  you have two separate problems:

1.  You need to finish school and at least get a high school diploma and
2.  Your boyfriend or husband is a jerk.  

I don't think you should view those both as the same problem,  but as separate challenges.

Best wishes.

[Jimirsmom]

I currently 33 but I was pregnant with my 1st baby at 14 and had him when I was 15. My mother was ashamed (but she loved me) and "they said I would never make it. I used all that negative energy as motivation!  It's easy to say just hold your head up but sometimes it feels overwhelming with so much critics especially from those you need to hold you up and support you. I suggest you get all the information about the home school process so you can be properly informed and know if it's something YOU feel capable of accomplishing.  If you believe you can , you can. In closing let me say I not the failure so many said I would be. I am a successful home owner,  my children are honor roll students, my car is paid off, and I travel out of the country once a year. I don't say that to boast I say that to say success as a team mom is possible!  It's all about your determination through adversity

[jsm_1973]

Oh and as for your Dad even IF he would have been disappointed...he would have still loved you! As a parent even when you're disappointed with something about one of your kids, you still love them. I don't want to upset you any further, however I think that he were going to be disappointed about ANYTHING it would be you letting that so called husband of yours treat you the way he is and talk to you like that! I wish you had more support baby...but you do you. Having this baby and finishing school WILL be hard, but you CAN do it! You HAVE to for your baby! ♡

[jsm_1973]

FIRST OF ALL honey the only person that needs to believe in you is YOU! You're 16...(NO JUDGEMENTS...how old is your husband?)

[DuanesWife0214]

Im 16. Ill be 17 when baby is born. And thanks for the kind words and advice ladies. Very appreciated.

[Corriem]

Oh girlie I'm sorry thst you don't have the support of your husband, don't listen to hin, use his negative attitude to propel you forward and complete your goal, you can graduate, just commit yourself to it and then you can do it! Prove him wrong and then maybe next time you have a goal he will be supportive.

[kimbo2727]

You are going though a hard time your husband should be supporting you. you have just lost your dad and now your pregnant hun it's hard but you need people around you that will support you and say you will get there you don't need this right now. The stress isn't doing you any good or the baby

[kimbo2727]

Your not stupid hun when people say your stupid turn round and I say I will prove you wrong. Hope you don't mind me asking how old are you.

[DuanesWife0214]

Im trying my best but at evey turn im told im stupid or a failure. Or that my father would be dissapointed if he were still alive. No one had a bonf like him and i.. he was the only real support i had til he passed away in November.. my husband usually supports me but lately he has just been a different person...

[kimbo2727]

You need to keep your chin up and think about yourself and this baby. This little baby will look up to you your the baby's mum and that baby will need it's mum to be strong and you need to do what is best for you and baby you shouldn't care what anyone else thinks you just need to prove them wrong hun you can do it.

[DuanesWife0214]

How can i find peace when everyone doubts me and puts me down?... i dont find it possible anymore

[BabyMomma34]

Oh sweet baby I am so sorry. I'm praying for you right now. I hope you find peace.