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People say i am too old to have another child

I am 39 years old and I am wanting another baby but people tell me these horrible things saying i am too old or the child may be retarded or have birth defects. I am so down right now
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I'm sorry everyone is giving you such a hard time.  I had my twin boys a month away from my 46 birthday.  I say its a personal choice and you should do what is best for yourself.  It's not fair to say your child will be disabled because of your age.  It can happen regardless of your age.  I don't think you're too old, but it is your choice.  Best of luck to you.
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I'm 38 and trying .. People are old now having babies ur fine
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I'm 39 and trying for my first child. Just ignore what people say, it's your body and the life you want desiring another child. Good luck!
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