Who is the father?

[Katy876]

Please can someone help? I am confused as to who the father of my unborn child may be? I have previously had an ectopic pregnany therefore my periods are very unreliable... I had sex with a man from work on the 26th of March, I then had a period the next again day which lasted for about 3 days. I then had sex with my partner on the 1st of April. I took a clear blue digital pregnancy test on Saturday (24th April) which said I was 1 - 2 weeks but according to the doctor I am 4 weeks as they take it according to the date of your last period (which would have been 29th March)...

I did not use a contraception with the man from work or my partner, however the guy from work did not ejaculate inside me? Please can someone help I am going out my mind with worry and this is not good for the baby...

Thanks

[Katy876]

Thank you so much for your reply's! I know I must sound like a complete waste of space and believe me I feel like it! Me and my partner were together for 5 years and decided to have a bit of a break for a few months so were actually only back together for 3 weeks when I slept with my co worker!

I am going out my mind with worry... I can't talk to anyone about this and I am going to make myself ill worrying about eye colours, height (me and my partner have blue eyes and are quite small, my co worker has brown eyes and it over 6ft)...

[Chez_lee81]

Relax. More then likely it is your partner as you had a period after you had sex with the co-worker. Use one of the preg trackers to work out conceptions date. This should set your mind at ease.

[kendra750]

i saw jus calm down u prolly r 1 or 2 weeks wait until you get tha ultrasound to see how far along you are they always go by the date from your last period but they are usually never right. so i would say to ask your doc for a u/s because u need to know how far along you really are after that they can tell you a for sure date hope this helped good luck to you and your lil one

[Stroh]

I think you are misunderstanding the chart.  They go by the start date of your last period.  Don't stress... the doctors just generalize the due date in the beginning.  The due date usually changes as the baby grows.  It is not an exact date.  Use this site. It will give you the approx. fertilization date.
http://www.due-date-calculator.com/

[bcgirl22]

Well hunn as far as i know there is only one way to know for sure and that is a DNA test on the baby once it gets here.I hope everything works out for you sweetie...