I think that my husband is putting penegra pills or something in my cups of tea, my husband and i split up a couple of years ago but are now back together again, i noticed that when i was not communicating with him for five weeks or so i felt really well but then upon his request he asked me to go back home to help him sort things out and to go for my evening meal with him because he was lonely i noticed from this time i started to have bad headaches, digestive problems, pins and needles in my hands arms and feet. I then returned to home and tried to make our marriage work again then one evening he asked me to get him something from a drawer & on doing this i found some oral jelly and some brown pills called penegra in the drawer, when i asked him what these pills were he said they were viagra that he had from some friend at work, i asked him to get rid of them for the sake of his own health & he then said that the pills were female viagra and that he put some in my cup of tea once but i didnt drink it. upon reserching the name penegra i found that they were a male viagra and the side effects were like the feelings i had been experiencing sometimes. I have also been finding really bad brown stains in my tea cup recently and i am wondering if this has been going on for some time that he has been putting substances in my cups of tea. How can i find out properly?