Welcome to the forum. I'll try to help.
First, as for your pap smear: I agree you probably have a high-risk type of HPV infection, based on having "high risk cells" Most likely that means your pap smear shows high-grade displasia or that a biopsy showed a "high grade squamous intraepithelial lesion", or HSIL. Although low-risk types cause many abnormal pap smears, they generally are limited to lower grade dysplasia or low grade SIL (LSIL).
However, neither that finding nor the apparent speed of progression is alarming at all. Although patients (and some doctors) often assume that paps progress from minor to more major changes over a long time, it isn't true. Some HPV infections result in HSIL right from the start; others stay low-grade for long periods; and others, like yours, may go quickly from low to high grade. This appears to be random, not because some HPV strains are more aggressive than others. It makes little or no difference in the risk for cancer, or when cancer might develop. Progression to overt (invasive) cancer usually takes 5-10 years, even in situations like yours.
In other words, your HPV infection is no more "aggressive" than normal. So follow your ObG provider's advice. Most likely s/he will recommend a colposcopy examination and perhaps a procedures to remove the diseased cervical tissue. Properly managed, there is almost no chance you ever will have actual cancer.
As for oral HPV and cancer, there is no reason to suspect you would be in the very small minority who will get it. For a more detailed discussion about oral HPV and cancer, please see this thread:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/758844
Bottom line: Follow your ObG's advice about follow-up and treatment of your abnormal pap smear, which will protect you against cervical cancer. Don't worry about oral cancer; it's not likely to ever be an issue for you.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD