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Condom Broken
Dear Doctors,
Just 7 hours ago, I went for a massage place and end up had sex with the CSW (I am in Hong Kong now).
She put on a condom for me to give me oral and attemted to have vaginal intercourse with condom.
It was difficult to enter. She applied some KY and it was still difficult to get in. She was sitting on me and really tried to push it then we both heard "pop" and the condom broken at the "entrance".
I don't know if I entered or not but she said I didn't (but how can it break if it didnt enter?). When she came off me, (she stood up immediately after she heard the "pop" sound, maybe 2-3 secs in between if I did enter her), the penis head was completely exposed and the condom was on my shaft. She took the broken condom away and put on new one .. and we carried on. After finished I saw some blood on the condom (didn't break this time) she said she just finished her period 3days ago.
I asked her many times afterwards, she assured me she is clean as she check very often and got herself tested for bacteria half a month ago and she did not have sex until she return to work yesterday and had 6 customers (this sounds scary). She added she has blood test (for HIV) every 6mths and insisted she is absolutely clean and I should have nth to worry about. She also added she only had one condom break and she got it tested, she's clean. Also said she never had any STD in her life.
Since then, I can't stop worrying the potential disease I can get from her and nothing I can do until 4 weeks later for HIV and other blood test
I understand this question been asked before ... what is my risk for getting anything? Should I get tested? Am I worried too much given it was soo brief and that lady probably is clean?
I am extremely worried ... I haven't eaten since then and I cant really sleep. I will be on vacation next week now the mood is completely spoiled ... I really wish you will tell me I am fine .. but rather .. I really want a genuin accessment .. thank you
Just 7 hours ago, I went for a massage place and end up had sex with the CSW (I am in Hong Kong now).
She put on a condom for me to give me oral and attemted to have vaginal intercourse with condom.
It was difficult to enter. She applied some KY and it was still difficult to get in. She was sitting on me and really tried to push it then we both heard "pop" and the condom broken at the "entrance".
I don't know if I entered or not but she said I didn't (but how can it break if it didnt enter?). When she came off me, (she stood up immediately after she heard the "pop" sound, maybe 2-3 secs in between if I did enter her), the penis head was completely exposed and the condom was on my shaft. She took the broken condom away and put on new one .. and we carried on. After finished I saw some blood on the condom (didn't break this time) she said she just finished her period 3days ago.
I asked her many times afterwards, she assured me she is clean as she check very often and got herself tested for bacteria half a month ago and she did not have sex until she return to work yesterday and had 6 customers (this sounds scary). She added she has blood test (for HIV) every 6mths and insisted she is absolutely clean and I should have nth to worry about. She also added she only had one condom break and she got it tested, she's clean. Also said she never had any STD in her life.
Since then, I can't stop worrying the potential disease I can get from her and nothing I can do until 4 weeks later for HIV and other blood test
I understand this question been asked before ... what is my risk for getting anything? Should I get tested? Am I worried too much given it was soo brief and that lady probably is clean?
I am extremely worried ... I haven't eaten since then and I cant really sleep. I will be on vacation next week now the mood is completely spoiled ... I really wish you will tell me I am fine .. but rather .. I really want a genuin accessment .. thank you
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
No, 5 second penetration would not change my opinion or advice. Neither would 5 minutes of unprotected sex.
You came here for reassurance. I gave it. Please accept it at face value. If you cannot, get tested anyway for reassurance. Either way, this thread has gone as far as it can.
You came here for reassurance. I gave it. Please accept it at face value. If you cannot, get tested anyway for reassurance. Either way, this thread has gone as far as it can.
thank you Dr.. i will forget it and move on after 10days if nth shows up
Sorry doc on last question. Your statement assumed a penetration took place or not? If it went in for less than 5 seconds, will that change you opinion?
Thank you very much!!
Thank you very much!!
Thank you Dr HHH
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
If I were in this circumstance, I would wait about 10 days. If there were no symptoms, by then, I not get tested and would resume unprotected sex with my wife, with no fears about her health.
Say if that was happened to you (hyphothetically). How would you respond and react to that incidence? What would you do?
Thank you doctor.
So even if it did went in. Because of the very brief exposure I should not worry about it am I correct?
There is a theoratical risk .. but it is practically unlikley for me to get anything right?
So even if it did went in. Because of the very brief exposure I should not worry about it am I correct?
There is a theoratical risk .. but it is practically unlikley for me to get anything right?
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to the forum. Your questions indeed have been asked before -- thanks for reading the forum to see them. However, that means you already know the answers, which will be the same as you have seen.
Even when STDs are present, most sexual exposures do not result in transmission. You don't even know whether there was actual penile penetration into your partner's vagina; if not, the risk was lower still. And it seems unlikely your massage partner is infected anyway: she is probably truthful in saying she is tested regularly and has no current STDs. And she apparently uses condoms consistently -- which further lowers her risk. Without condoms, female sex workers are at higher risk of STDs from their clients than the clients are from them, so this probably means she knows she isn't infected and intends to stay that way.
Should you be tested? From the standpoint of risk assessment, there is no need. However, most people who ask questions like yours will be only partly reassured by advice like mine. Probably you will gain more confidence from negative testing. If so, get tested. You can have an accurate urine test for gonorrhea and chlamydia after 4-5 days, and blood tests for syphilis and HIV after 6 weeks. Obviously, if you develop any symptoms (discharge from the penis, penile sores) get examined right away -- but I don't expect that to happen. Try to stay relaxed as you wait to be tested. It is very unlikely you caught anything.
Regards-- HHH, MD
Even when STDs are present, most sexual exposures do not result in transmission. You don't even know whether there was actual penile penetration into your partner's vagina; if not, the risk was lower still. And it seems unlikely your massage partner is infected anyway: she is probably truthful in saying she is tested regularly and has no current STDs. And she apparently uses condoms consistently -- which further lowers her risk. Without condoms, female sex workers are at higher risk of STDs from their clients than the clients are from them, so this probably means she knows she isn't infected and intends to stay that way.
Should you be tested? From the standpoint of risk assessment, there is no need. However, most people who ask questions like yours will be only partly reassured by advice like mine. Probably you will gain more confidence from negative testing. If so, get tested. You can have an accurate urine test for gonorrhea and chlamydia after 4-5 days, and blood tests for syphilis and HIV after 6 weeks. Obviously, if you develop any symptoms (discharge from the penis, penile sores) get examined right away -- but I don't expect that to happen. Try to stay relaxed as you wait to be tested. It is very unlikely you caught anything.
Regards-- HHH, MD
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