Yes, atrophic vaginitis might be possible, but that's outside my area of expertise.
With "several" negative HSV tests from the lesions, that's further strong evidence against HSV, if the ulcers were still open and painful when the specimens were taken. Any single test can be negative, but with "several", you would expect at least one to be positive if you had herpes. In any case, a herpes-knowledgeable provider will know the importance of seeing you immediately (within 24 hours) of the next genital ulcer episode. If such a test is negative, as I think it will be, you can just disregard herpes as a potential cause.
I am not sure if i am entitled to another thread but thank you for you response. I have been also tested for herpes several times always with negative result but never quick enough to catch the sore areas... only the discharge. I am perimenopausal so presume age related atrophic vaginitis is possible?? Again thank you for your help - the problem has been a big blight on my life for two years.
I missed that your initial HSV-1 result was negative. Apologies. That it was later positive supports the apparent acquisition of that virus between those tests. However, I don't know how to interpret the "weakly positive" outcome. If your genital symptoms were due to HSV-1, I would expect a strongly positive result.
If sex is consistently triggering ulcers and discharge, I would wonder about an underlying health problem that is making your genital tissues fragile. There are certain immunologic and genetic diseases that might do that. For example, there is condition called Behcet's disease which causes genital ulceration, occurring mostly in people of Mediterranean origin (Armenian, Turkish, certain Jewish ethnic groups). Or Stevens Johnson syndrome, a dermatologic condition that usually also causes a generalized skin rash but probably can be limited to genital ulceration alone. You might raise these issues with your gynecologist and consider referral to a dermatologist, who would likely be more familiar. Or something as simple as a chronic yeast infection. Or even an allergic reaction to semen (which has been reported to occur, although it is exceedingly rare). All such conditions are well beyond my expertise.
It seems peculiar that you have been tested "many times" for the STDs you mention, which don't cause ulceration, but apparently not for HSV. As I suggested above, that's an obvious next step.
HHH, MD
Thank you so much for your help. My IGG for HSV1 was negative at the initial outbreak so I assumed the weak positive was a seroconversion which took an unusally long time - a year. Would the rough sex give me these sores and the discharge. It has been swabbed many times for chlamydia, gonorrhoea, trich etc and always been negative.
Most likely you do not have genital herpes at all. The only typical experience you describe is the initial symptoms: the combinaton of genital ulcer, vaginal discharge, and fever or other flu-like symptoms is classical for initial genital herpes. However, everything else is against it.
1) Even with HSV-2, symptomatic outbreaks as often as once a month is uncommon, and I have never heard of genital HSV-1 causing such frequent outbreaks.
2) However, your blood test shows for sure you don't have HSV-2; and the postive HSV-1 result is most likely to reflect a distant (childhood?) infection, as for 50% of the population.
3) Acyclovir resistance is rare in HSV. The continuing symptoms while taking acyclovir is strong evidence against herpes.
4) Herpes outbreaks are not triggered by sex.
5) Recurrent genital herpes is virtually always unilateral, not bilateral; i.e. always on the same side, generally within an inch or so of every other outbreak. At the earliest stage, you should see red bumps or blisters, before open sores develop. Since you don't describe these things, and have had bilateral lesions, this also argues against herpes as the cause of your symptoms.
My advice: Find a health care provider who is knowledgeable about herpes. That might be your own ObG, or a Planned Parenthood or health department family planning clinic. Ask around. Second, stop taking acylovir entirely. Third, see the herpes-knowledgeable provider immediately (within 1-2 days) the next time you have genital sores, for professional examination and a culture or PCR for the virus. (Any provider who understands herpes will appreciate the need to grease the skids for an immediate appointment if and when symptoms reappear.)
Could it be herpes? I cannot rule it out entirely. But my bet is strongly against it.
I hope this helps. Best wishes-- HHH, MD