Hello,
I have been dating a woman for the past 2.5 months is who has genital HSV 2 and does not have oral HSV1 or 2. She was diagnosed 3 years ago and consistently takes antiviral meds to control her outbreaks.
Since we are sexually active, we engage in protected intercourse and unprotected oral sex. So my questions are:
1.) I didn’t know if there was any real data out there regarding the risks of transmission of HSV2 from the genitals to the mouth from someone who has not had a flare up (she hasn’t had any outbreaks since we have been sexually active and takes regular antiviral meds).
2.) I have recently noticed some tiny clustered white bumps on my lower lip, slight itching and twicthing around the area, but it has been two days now and they havent changed in size, they look like small white pimples, I havent noticed any redness or pain and as of now they don’t seem to be blistering. I spoke to my girlfriend about it and she could barely make them out but they are present, seems like I have to strech my lip out to get a better look at them. It was she who told me risk of transmission of HSV2 to the mouth is extremely rare.
3.) I did put some abreva on my lip, and that actually seemed to aggrevate my lip more, but also I rubbed my eye shortly after without thinking to wash my hands, and almost immediately my eye became irritated, and itchy and has been for almost 2 days. Was there any risk that if I did contract HSV2 to my lip that I have now passed it to my eye? Should I make an appointment with an eye doctor?
4.) Finally, again if indeed I did contract oral HSV2, is it possible that I have now passed it to her orally?
Thank you