Thanks for the feedback. On reflection, I'm not so surprised that GGGD doesn't do type-specific HSV serology -- I disagree with that as a policy matter, but reasonable experts disagree on this. However, I am amazed to hear that they are so cavalier about preventing sexual transmission of genital herpes. The fact is that many (most?) people at risk for STDs, including many with HSV-2, cannot or will not consistently use condoms -- although mabye more so in NL than in the US -- and avoiding sex only when herpes lesions are present is pretty much useless advice in preventing transmission.
I'm hoping you misunderstood -- but I doubt it. You're obviously pretty knowledgeable and articulate about these issues, so probably you are accurate conveying their policy. Or at least the beliefs of the particular clinician you spoke with, if not of the clinic or GGGD as a whole. They should know better!
Thanks for the thanks about the forum. Take care.
Welcome to the STD forum. I will try to help.
I agree with your self-diagnosis that herpes is not the explanation for your symptoms, and you also are correct that the first step should be to have a proper blood test to confirm whether or not you really have HSV-2. As you seem to know, the HSV IFA test (IFA = immunofluorescent antibody) is not reliable, because it is not type-specific; it does not accurately distinguish between HSV-1 versus HSV-2. You might have HSV-2, HSV-1, or both. (But you definitely are infected with one or the other.)
As you seem to understand, herpes sores can itch, but itching without sores is not a herpes symptom; and herpes certainly does not cause the sort of widespread itching you describe, i.e. labia major, upper thighs, etc. The lack of quick response to valacyclovir also is strong evidence against herpes. As to other explanations for your genital area itching, that's much more difficult to judge from afar. Most STDs don't cause such widespread genital itching. Two possibilities might be pubic lice ("crabs") or scabies (itch mite), which can be acquired sexually.
If and when you have a type-specific HSV blood test, you may find you indeed have HSV-2. In that case, suppressive treatment with valacyclovir might be a good idea, to helpf prevent transmission to sex partners. But even if positive for HSV-2, I still doubt it explains your current symptoms.
I am surprised to hear that a Dutch STD clinic doesn't offer type-specific HSV serology. You might ask around, especially in the major urban centers like Rotterdam or Amsterdam. Try calling GGGD (I forget what the initials mean, but it's the main health department in Amsterdam) and asking about it. Or see a private health care provider. If you travel to UK from time to time, you certainly can find testing available at a National Health Service Genitourinary Medicine (GUM) clinic.
I hope this helps. Best wishes-- HHH, MD
Thanks for the quick response. I actually got tested for STDs in the GGGD in Amsterdam, and in the moment I asked for HSV serology, and the doctor said they did not do it because many people have antibodies. They only do testing via culture of lesions. I also went to the doctor of the UvA, and got the same response. Apparently, HSV2 is also very common here, and doctors don't seem too worried about it, they just told me to use condoms and not have sex if I had lesions. I also believe that HSV doesnt have the same social stigma as in the US and/or people don´t even know about it.
I guess my only choice is to go to a private doctor.
Thanks again for your answer. I have learned a lot through this forum.
Best regards.
I saw this comment before I responded above. It doesn't change my opinion or advice.
I forgot to write that that blood test was done 2 and a half months after the exposure and that the symptoms appeared like a week after the exposure, but in the moment were not diagnosed as HSV 2 by a health care provider and cleared in a week or so. The blood test was done later because I started a new reationship and wanted to be sure I did't have anything.