I have HSV-1 (no visible outbreak prior to or at time of incident) with an uninfected girlfriend of four months. Ours was a committed relationship, but I did not tell her that I had HSV-1 which was wrong. We kissed, had oral to genital sex, and protected intercourse until the incident, when we had oral to genital sex, and we had first-time unprotected intercourse. So, recent sexual history occurred on: Incident Day -12 or 13, and Incident Day. Two days after Incident Day, she said that she was feeling sick, and feeling burning during urination, and a day after said she had bumps and was being tested for herpes. I am disturbed that after urgent care that she called to ask, "I need to know, do YOU have herpes? You're the only man I've been with." If our relationship is committed, and she contracted herpes wouldn't she have NO DOUBT it was from me? (I wonder, might she have been with someone else?) And why didn't she want me to go to the doctor to be tested, and to review results? She has the results, and I still don't know her type HSV, she just texted me to not contact her, that I ruined her life. My type HSV-1 is known, our sexual contact history is clear, and I was outbreak free on Incident -12, or Incident Day. Isn't it true that I can only give HSV-1? And what is the shortest and longest development of HSV? If she might have HSV-2, don't I deserve to know? Should I wonder why she was willing to have unprotected intercourse, and two days later was telling me of symptoms of genital HSV, but not including me in the doctor process, or the results? This seems an odd set of circumstances from both the biological and behavioral standpoint. I need your help piecing together facts of the biologically process to understand the behaviors. I know the horror I went through on my first symptoms, know what she may be feeling, and care about her, but if I'm NOT responsible for her HSV, don’t we BOTH need to be honest about our situations, and I deserve to know if she has HSV-2?