Hello,
I am afraid to have an antibody test because I know it will cripple me emotionally, although I know I will eventually have to have one. Until then..
I've battled with the idea of herpes for months. My initial symptoms were pain with urination, swollen lymph nodes, discharge and burning in the soles of one foot. I never had any lesions, and i was negative for STIs.
A few weeks ago, the burning on the sole of my right foot started again. It feels as if there is pressure and slight numbess, not really pain. I also had pain in my lower back. What's different now is I have had tingling on my labia majora by my clitoris for over a week. My questions are..
1) I know the experts in this forum have said that burning in soles of feet is not related to herpes, but I have read so many user posts and a couple of medical essays that mention this symptom being related to herpes and recurrent outbreaks. Why would it, or why would it not cause this feeling, in your opinion?
2) I read in Terri Warren's herpes handbook that there is such thing as an aborted recurrence, where the prodromal tingling can occur but the lesions never surface. Should I be concerned about this?
3) If the tingling in my labia was related to herpes, is it normal for it to last over a week on and off? Still don't have any lesions, nor any redness at all, the skin looks perfectly normal...
4) I'm also trying to time my initial symptoms from when I had sex... what is the average time it takes to show symptoms like lymph nodes and pain with urination if it were due to herpes?
5) What is the likelihood of getting herpes from someone from two sexual encounters in a week if they were unprotected (I am a woman), and the other person is not known to have herpes, and did not have any signs or symptoms of it at the time?
Thank you for your patience with such a commonly asked question. The stigma surrounding herpes is wrong, but it doesn't stop me from being affected by it...