Dear Dr. EWH or HHH, I feel that I got myself into a hopeless situation. Lately having a difficult time I went to massage parlors about 10 times. I received a handjob and fingered the vaginas of the (different) girls. Most of the time they penetrated me with a finger in my rectum (they did not touch themselves). I have read your archives and other sources but am still very worried because I did never check the fingers (or vaginas) of the girls. From what I have learned Hepatitis, Syphilis, Herpes or even HIV could be transmitted if one girl had an open cut or a sore in unlucky circumstances. So here my questions:
1) What is your analysis of my risks in this situation?
2) I think only testing can release my fears. Is 4 weeks enough time and which tests would you recommend?
3) My wife desperately wants a baby so we are having unprotected sex. Your thoughts?
4) Can you give me advice on how to go through the window period without a breakdown? (I know thats somewhat beyond the scope of this forum, but any thoughts are much appreciated)
I really hope that I did not annoy you with my questions, I knew nowhere else to turn to. My questions may seem silly, but my pain and despair is very real.
Frederick
(keep up this excellent important work)