STD and blood

[emrec]

First of all thank you for your service you give here. Here is my story

I have one girl friend who we hang out time to time. We dated 5  6 times and I do not know her so much actually. Here is my questions

First - She gave me unprotected oral sex 3 months ago. She did not want to have sex because  she is still virgin.

Second- I was sleeping with her .we did not have any sex (vaginal anal oral). We just kissed each other and she was naked. I was wearing boxer and t-short. Morning when I woke up I saw little blood on the bed and I checked myself. There was a blood spot may be half cm on my boxer also just front side on my penis area. I asked her and she told me she has her periods.

She is working in a hospital as a radiologist and she told me one time she has health analysis  every year and she has vaccines like hepatitis and tuberculosis because she is working in a hospital. But who knows.... Also to have some diseases you do not need to have vaginal sex.

What is your idea do you think I have any risk of any STDs diseas from these two events ?

May be I am so worry , more than I should be  but I need advices

Thanks

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[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

Welcome to the forum.

As you suggest yourwelf, you are indeed much more worried than you should be.  As with the other exposures you have asked about on the HIV prevention forum (both domestic and international) and the community forums, you continue to be concerned about very low risk exposures that carry little or no risk for HIV.  You describe a partner who is very unlikely to have an STD plus exposure events (oral sex, superficial exposure to menstrual blood) that carry no risk for STD transmission.  You are at no risk of any STD from these events.  You don't need testing and shouldn't worry at all about it.

I hope this has helped. Best wishes--  HHH, MD

[emrec]

Thank you for reply and yes indeed this made me feel better.

I just want to know about hepatitis because when I searched in the net it is written that HBV can transmit even there is no sexual contact. This dry blood on my boxer may touch my urethra. This is what I was worried about. Coz I do not like contact with somebody else blood whatsover there is.

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

Yes, hep B can be spread nonsexually -- in fact, blood contact accounts for more infections that sex does.  But superficial contact with small amounts of blood like you describe is entirely risk free.  You should not be at all worried about it.