I don't know how many times I have to tell you- you are not at risk and did not infect your wife. This will be my final answer. There is no risk for infection of any sort from touching a woman's vagina. - none!!!!
Get over it. you did not cause yor wife's problem. EWH
Thanks again , I guess how quickly is the gray area but one can assume that quicker then two or three years based on your opening reply (I hope) ? I never mentioned that I did touch this woman's Virginia with my fingers, is that a risk? My wife is definitely showing signs of something and I can't live with myself if its because of me .. sorry to drag this out it helps to discuss
Yes they can fight off infection without antibiotics. How quickly is difficult to quantify since, as you might imagine, it would be unethical to study what happens in people who are known to be infected.
Ha Fair enough .. Then can I ask, can people who are infected fight off/clear sti's such as chlamydia and gonorrhea after time without meds and if so how long does that take? And again thank you
This is a repetitive question. It does not change my opinion or advice. EWH
Thank you dr. So you don't think the burning urination in 2011 had a relation to the 2010 ( episode ) 6/7 months previous? I was worried that maybe she was infected then and it came out now? Or it came back and I infected her. Weird that I had burning pee twice in two years or so (though this one went away on its own) do hydrcoeles (feels like a smaller third testicle connected to the tube) carry bacteria? Sounds nuts but I have battled a sore redish sensitive "hot spot) on the tip of my tounge that is getting better since November.. so you can imagine what I'm thinking "we keep giving it back and forth to eath other". Std's can actually go away in their own (immune system) like other bacterial infections? I thought they stay in your body for over two and three years (Internet)
Welcome to the Forum. Guilt is far, far more long lived than most STIs. I would not be the least bit worried that you got "something: from the two episodes of oral sex you received years ago and passed it on to your wife to cause her current problems. Please do not worry and please, please stay off the internet- it will only fuel your anxiety..
The problem with your epididymis is a classical description of the problem that we call a hydrocoele (this you might look up on the internet, just no more STI "research" please). Most hydrocoeles are benign and can easily be delt with by a urologist if you have a concern.
I hope this comment is helpful to you. Your wife's current problem is not something you gave her several years ago. EWH